My hair dilemma.
I went for my hair trial over the weekend. First, I want to say that I am not a fan of updo's, at least not for myself. Rather than have a tiara with an updo and the veil come out of the back of the updo, I opted to get more of a headband type thingy with a poofy, finger-tip length veil that I can wear on top of my head. When I went to get my trial, I had the girl curl my hair and just pull the sides back so that way I would just have the headband and veil on top of my head. During the reception, I plan to take the veil off so I can just have the lovely, sparkly headband. I have really soft hair, so curls do not hold well. I got my trial at 9 AM on Sat... by 11 AM, my hair looked like I had been attacked by lions. It was half straight, half wavy, and just nasty because of all the hair spray. My FMIL suggested that I just wear my hair down and straight on the day... maybe even curled up at the ends. I thought this might be a good idea, as my hair always looks best after the beautician blows it out and styles it plain. Do you guys think this is a good idea? I don't want to look 'under-done' I have a fairly fancy dress with a cathedral length train and gloves over the elbow, so I figured that if I left my hair plain, it would look okay. I just can't stand over-the-top hair. What do you all think?