I've dreamt of my wedding day for the last 35 years. I have looked at dresses, flowers, colors, venues all for fun and had this wedding planned out in my mind....all I needed was the perfect groom.
Now I have the perfect groom but I can't wrap my mind around anything else. I have no clue what I want in a venue...I think I love something and then end up hating it. Today I bought my gown at Pronovias. It was perfect in the store...got home...hated the pictures...cancelled the order. I'm so confused and unbelievably overwhelmed. I don't know how I'm supposed to find my brain and relax....ughhhh vent over
simba301
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I can empathize with the way you're feeling for sure. I've had almost a decade to plan this wedding in my mind. And now that I'm actually planning it, I can't seem to make a decision that I don't second guess. I've only actually booked 3 things so far, but have had moments of regret and worry about each choice. It almost makes me hesitant to commit to any more vendors. And I can't even imagine how I'll be with the dress! I've known so many people who loved planning every detail of their weddings, but I just haven't figured out how to relax and enjoy it yet. I'm too terrified that I don't know what I'm doing and it will show on our big day. So, you're not alone in freaking out lol
cets1290
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I got my gown at pronovias too! I second guessed my dress 23984729347 times until i went back and tried it on again, and fell in love all over again. you just have to relax and remember the whole reason you are doing this in the first place. Everytime I start to get anxiety over stuff I booked, I just remember that this is all not important in the big picture, and the marriage is the only important thing. I'm sure the dress is absolutely beautiful on you, but if you sit and stare at a pic of you in it all of the time, you will be bound to find something you don't like about it. This will be the case for every other dress you find after canceling this one.
Can2Cam
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Thank you so much for sharing your experiences. From what I have been hearing from friends 'they just knew' and I am not getting that same feeling with my own decisions. Hearing you both say that you feel the same makes me feel a little more 'normal'.
chrisandcarri
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I know how you feel. Ive had over a year to plan and just kept procrastinating because I felt like I was never 'sure'. Its now 3 months out and Im finally making the decisions.
