My Husband Sent Flowers....

To my office today. The card simply says 'I love you, Your Husband.'

When I asked him what made him send them he said he wanted to acknowledge what today would have been had he not destroyed everything

We got married two Months ago today


I don't feel he has destroyed everything. I know he is trying and working very hard to show me that he can fix this and that we can get past this. The flowers are beautiful and very sweet, but it doesn't take away the hurt or change what he has done....anyways the flowers are lovely and I am just trying to enjoy them in whatever way I can. Just wanted to fill you girls in

i guess its a good thing that he is making an effort.. but i agree that it doesn't change what has already been done... hope you are doing alright

Aw Jess, that's really nice of him. I hope you are doing ok, been thinking about you!

Thanks girls. I am alright. I am hanging in there. I am a fighter and I am way stronger than I ever thought possible. I am trying and working really hard to see if there is anything left to salvage and/or build on. It's basically like a constant ping pong match in my head. We take 1 step forward and 2 steps back. I just want to make sure that if this does end, I can say that we tried to repair the damage...so please keep me in your thoughts and prayers, we are def not out of the woods yet, but we are trying.

Thanks girls

Hey Jess,

I've been away from the boards for some time and trying to catch up w/ everyone....I guess its not appropiate to ask what the H**** happened???

Anyhow, most important thing is to be at peace w/ yourself and forgive w/ your heart. Then and only then will things be in perspective, your mind will be clear and your heart at ease to make the best decision possible.

I'm glad you're trying to work things...its a start.

you are definitely in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there!

Well at least he is making an effort.. is he still staying with his parents?


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Aww Jess~ It's certainly going to take a lot of time and the correct decisions on his part to earn your trust back.. as it should.
He has a lot to prove to you right now. Flowers definately won't and shouldn't solve anything but it is a step in the right direction!
You know we all love you and think about you.. and hope for nothing but the best for you!
Hang in there. Sometimes in these moments of truth and true dispair we realize how strong we really are! You will get passed this in one way or another!
Best of luck to you! And lots of hugs too!!!

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Posted by littlepixie12

Well at least he is making an effort.. is he still staying with his parents?


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Thank you sweetie, yes he is still staying at his parents for now

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Posted by Jsquared279

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Posted by littlepixie12

Well at least he is making an effort.. is he still staying with his parents?


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Thank you sweetie, yes he is still staying at his parents for now

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that is okay.. some time apart might be what he needs ... are you still coming home for easter?

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Posted by littlepixie12

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Posted by Jsquared279

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Posted by littlepixie12

Well at least he is making an effort.. is he still staying with his parents?


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Thank you sweetie, yes he is still staying at his parents for now

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that is okay.. some time apart might be what he needs ... are you still coming home for easter?

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Yeah I am still coming home!

awww jess
its nice that he's trying but he has to continue to PROVE he is going to change you know?

Enjoy them though it was sucha nice thing to do!

It is great that he is trying....hope everything works out!

Just be strong and do what is right for you, that's all I can say. I would still be very leery.

I'm with the girls who don't know what happened but don't really need to to know enough to say. . you just take your time whatever it is, and eventually you will know what to do. . you are not weak if you decide to not go back and you are not weak if you don't .. just make sure you do things in your own time and it sounds like you are sooooooo super strong and amazing woman to be working through whatever you are!!!!!!

and def the flowers are a nice thing. . but just enjoy them for what they are

Jess I hope you're doing alright, it was a nice thing to do, so enjoy them, and I know you have a long road ahead of you, but you're right, you're a very strong person, and things will work out the way they are supposed to. Stay strong, sending hugs and prayers your way!!!

i've definitely been keeping you in my prayers. it's a nice gesture, flowers are always nice. but just be so careful with yourself, your heart and your mind. you've made some difficult choices and i pray you continue to stay strong and find clarity too!!

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Posted by coldasice217

Just be strong and do what is right for you, that's all I can say. I would still be very leery.

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Oh I am trust me. Thank you! I appreciate it. I know you are just trying to look out for me. I question every single day whether I should be with him or not...till those questions are gone, we will remain separated. Thank you so much sweetie