here's a question i get asked on a regular basis now.. and im sure it'll be more frequent once we actually do get married! so ladies..
do you plan on having kids after you're married? and if so how soon after?
HA! i wasnt planning on having kids until most recently. We kinda throw around the idea that if we should have them, it might be of having at some point before i'm 30 (he's 11 years older). Should it happen, we'll take it from there. But i've always been focused on advancing my career so that's what takes priority.
cdh2672
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We are hoping to have 1 or 2 kids, but we aren't putting pressure on it. We are both in our late 30s and if we are blessed with a child we will be so happy!
LisaReyes
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I'm 23 and have always dreamed of having a family. FH and I have been together for about 4 years now (will be 5 when we're married.) We want a year or two of being married with no kids, then we'll start trying for a family. I'd like to try for biological children, but I'm also very open to the idea of adoption!
pjt212301
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Nope, there are no additional kids in our future. I have two daughters and he has two sons - making our family complete.
JuneBug86
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We'll probably wait after 3 years...We always wanted to travel and go to different places. But if it happens it would still be a blessing.
ChristineNorah
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No children for us.
rnesenoff
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Yes definatly - it if was up to FH then i would be pregers already but i want to wait until after the honeymoon
Bride2012
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I'm all about my career right now. I want to go for my masters and that will probably take three years. FH wants to finish college and get comnfortable in his career. We would like to travel. We probably will wait a while. We are both 28. No rush. If its mesnt to be it will happen.
Jdegeronimo22
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For sure. We have a daughter already who will be a few months over 3yrs old at our wedding! we're going to start TTC the month of our wedding, our next baby will be a little over four years younger than our daughter. We're thinking pink (again)!!
chrissie0121
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FH and I do want kids, but we def want to wait 2 years or so to have them. We still want to travel and we want to enjoy married life before we have any kids. But if it happens earlier, then thats fine with us too. But I don't want to have any for at least 2 years.
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Posted by LisaReyes
I'm 23 and have always dreamed of having a family. FH and I have been together for about 4 years now (will be 5 when we're married.) We want a year or two of being married with no kids, then we'll start trying for a family. I'd like to try for biological children, but I'm also very open to the idea of adoption!
Aw, im also open to adoption! so many kids out there who need a loving home..
