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My MIL

TEDNJENN Posted:

My MIL

I haven't posted much in the last few Weeks because as you my remember my MIL was sick (lung cancer) and we weren't sure if she would make it to the wedding. But she pulled through and hung on making our wedding day perfect by being there. It was tough and she went through 6 tanks of oxygen to do it but she looked beautiful and was so happy to be there.

Unfortunately, Last Thursday she lost her battle and passed very peacefully. We were all by her bed side and she was so beautiful.
I will never forget what she said the day before the wedding to me..' I will not call you my daughter in law, to me you are my daughter and I will always love you!!!!'

SHe was pretty much incoherent for the last week and a half but her last words to me were' I am sorry to put you through this ordeal a second time in your life ( my mom died 10 years ago from liver cancer) but I am ready to meet your mom now.'


I know there are a lot of brides out there that do not get a long with the MIL or FMILs but I would do anything to have mine back but I am very grateful I had her in my life as my MIL for the 6 Weeks that I did.

THanks for letting me vent.
Here is a picture of her at the wedding:

In loving memory of Geraldine
Happybride2005 Posted:

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tann22 Posted:

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I'm so sorry for your loss.
I have tears in my eyes

mable Posted:

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I too am sorry for your loss..
And I am tearing..
Now you have 2 angels 2gether looking at you..
Mrs. dleeny Posted:

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I am so sorry for your loss

littlebookworm4 Posted:

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That was so beautiful of her to say!
jennandrob Posted:

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omigosh, those words were so beautiful, and I am so sorry for your loss.

MrsA814 Posted:

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i'm so sorry for you loss
Blu-ize Posted:

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You are so lucky to have two beautfiul strong souls looking after you. She looked beautiful at your wedding.


MayBride06 Posted:

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I am sorry for your loss. We are here for you.
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DMcK Posted:

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I am so sorry for your loss. Your words were beautiful and touching, and I am sure your MIL left this world at peace since she knows that you are with her son.

Thoughts and prayers are with you.
SPITSBRIDE Posted:

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Awww...that was very touching and definitely brought a couple of tears to my eyes. She is in a better place now...may God bless you and your family
Pookiesangel Posted:

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I'm sorry for your loss
Dooodles Posted:

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I am so sorry

It sounds like she was such an amazing woman and loved you with all of her heart. I'm sure she and your Mom are getting along wonderfully watching over you and DH. Her words and yours made me cry.
Sweetpea130000 Posted:

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Sorry for your loss.

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