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my mini review

Im_My_Own_Princess Posted:

my mini review

so let me start by saying... my day was far from perfect... but DH and I are the only ones that know... to our guests it seemed like a fairytale... I just kinda wish our wedding was OUR fairytale.
there was a lot of little things that shouldn't have happened... and a lot of things that upset me that others find comical, and a few things that i find comical now that i didn't on that day.
with that being said.. i know that everything happens for a reason, and there's really nothing that can be done.. there's no magical time machine that will take me back to my wedding day.
but i do want to share my ups and downs... because i hope that it will help other brides.

i'm not doing a full review just yet... just a few things that are on my mind... but feel free to ask any questions, i'll answer them honestly.

verdi's.
first off, a good note.. the food was AMAZING.. absolutely 100% AMAZING, there were NO complaints at all... from guests.
oh and the VH- was OFF THE HOOK... it was BEYOND PERFECT!
my complaint...
the toilet in my bridal suite overflowed.. with me on it... when i went to get help, my Bridal attendants assistant LAUGHED at me.. while i was running partly naked out of my suite.

my cake... was NOT what i wanted...

oh and THEY LET ANOTHER BRIDE INTO MY RECEPTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, yup, flat out LET her in.. held the door open for her and her friends and let them in to my wedding!!!!
I happened to be standing by the door when they came in and I took care of it.. but there's no reason I should be standing in my dress SCREAMING at this tacky bride, her gross friends and the employees at verdis.

not many people noticed... but a handful did and its embarrassing and upsetting.

um.. my dress.. i LOVED, but the pick ups dropped and it ended up being like 1-2 inches too long, rather then 1 inch too short, causing me to trip TWICE at the church- walking down the aisle...
oh and during DH and I's entrance and our first dance... but I laugh at that... I literally stopped my father partway down the aisle, bent forward and lifted my dress... and nobody remembers
oh and my bustle was ripped out TWICE... once by a guest then the second time by my Banquet Manager.

formal knight tux
price was GREAT
colors were GREAT
fact that the sole of my nephews shoe peeled off 30 min before walking down the aisle.. then the other one while walking around chelsea mansion- NOT GREAT
oh and DH's button popping off during the ceremony... comical.

my flowers were PERFECT.. Joy did an amazing job! and the CPs were better than I asked for

we're not going to discuss my photographer because I have a feeling that this might get pulled... BUT let me just say.. as of right now, I will not recommend my photographer to anyone, until I see my pictures.. I pray to god they impress me... because while my photographer was a sweetheart, she did not listen to anything we said. and I cry every night over that!


my makeup was okay I would have liked a little bit more of a dramatic look, but its fine, i still looked good.. i LOVED my mother and MOHs...
my hair was PERFECT

Red Carpet Limo- A++++++++++++++++++++++++
I will HIGHLY RECOMMEND them to ANYONE!
their prices are great the bus was clean, our driver was GREAT...

um.. everything else, I can discuss in my actual review, unless anyone has questions.


I'll try and find time to upload some more non-pro pics.

eta- the VH
AwaitingAugust Posted:

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that stinks :-/

i can't believe they let another bride into your reception ... that's very wrong of them!

but as you said, things are less annoying now that they're in the past .... hopefully as time passes, they'll matter less and less and you'll be able to laugh at them along with your guests.



ETA: i hope your pro photos end up better than you remember. If it makes you feel better, i was upset about not getting soooo many shots with my photogs ... but it ended up we DID take them, it's just that we forgot we did ... hopefully you'll be in the same boat
Im_My_Own_Princess Posted:

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Posted by AwaitingAugust
ETA: i hope your pro photos end up better than you remember. If it makes you feel better, i was upset about not getting soooo many shots with my photogs ... but it ended up we DID take them, it's just that we forgot we did ... hopefully you'll be in the same boat



yea no.. we wanted very artsy pics... and we got 90% POSED.. in the SAME UGLY spot.. it was the most boring spot of the mansion.. and we kept asking to move and saying we didn't want to do those pictures, but were told she HAD to do them or she'd get in trouble...

we spent over an hour in one spot taking family shots that none of us wanted.
iHeartMoogle Posted:

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What do you mean they let another bride in? Do you mean there was another wedding going on and she left hers to see yours? Or was she looking at the hall to possibly book her wedding?

Sorry so many things went wrong, but I'm glad it was still a great day!
halfbaked Posted:

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I cannot believe about the toilet overflowing!!! Honestly, that was a huge fear of mine leading up to the wedding. Strange fear, I know, but obviously not irrational!

And about the other bride coming in to check out your wedding. I'd be pissed about that. It's one thing passing each other in the common areas, it's another entirely for her to jump in on your party.

I'm sure the pictures will be stunning! You looked beautiful! The non-pro pictures themselves are great!
AwaitingAugust Posted:

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Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess
yea no.. we wanted very artsy pics... and we got 90% POSED.. in the SAME UGLY spot.. it was the most boring spot of the mansion.. and we kept asking to move and saying we didn't want to do those pictures, but were told she HAD to do them or she'd get in trouble...

we spent over an hour in one spot taking family shots that none of us wanted.



oh boo then

you gonna speak with the photogs about it?
philsdeezy Posted:

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It will be OK. How did you like your DJ?

Im_My_Own_Princess Posted:

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Posted by iHeartMoogle

What do you mean they let another bride in? Do you mean there was another wedding going on and she left hers to see yours? Or was she looking at the hall to possibly book her wedding?

Sorry so many things went wrong, but I'm glad it was still a great day!



there was another wedding going on in the next room from 6-10 as well as a sweet 16 in the third room from 8-12.. let me just say, the birthday girl was a SWEETHEART!!!! at the end of the night we sat down and chatted.. I wish I could like steal her.. she was great.

as for the bride/crasher

ready for a story?

once upon a time, megan arrived to her wedding and went to her bridal suite, while walking to do pictures and stop into the CH she spotted another bride and congratulated her, telling her she looks amazing, the evil bride then scoffed at megan, rolled her eyes and turned away to leave, while mumbling obscenities under her breath.

the brides prince charming however was a gentlemen, congratulating megan her her husband, holding doors open and having nice conversations with them.

at a quarter past ten, megan and her husband were going to step outside for a minute when megan noticed some trashy woman with a glowing necklace, knowing she specifically said NO HAND OUTS, megan knew this woman was not a guest at her event and went to ask the woman to leave.. on her way to the trashy woman she spotted FOUR more trashy women and the evil bride.
after asking the evil bride and her trashy friends to leave, megan was told that the evil bride was there to say 'congratulations to the other bride, wherever she might be'...

after shooing the evil bride and her trashy friends from the room, megan later learned that one of the friends approached her guests stating 'i'm totally crashing this party and drinking more- WOO.. and the brides coming'
(this chick was DRUNK and stumbling)

megan then discovered that the evil bride did not let herself in, but she had her friends go ahead, scope out the party, go back to her and inform her she could try and crash AND the bride went to a sales person and said 'can my friends and i go in there and congratulate the other bride' and was told YES and they HELD THE DOOR OPEN FOR HER!!!!

the end

but wait... lets backtrack... this happened to a friend of mine at her sweet 16 and DH and I brought this up to verdi's BEFORE our wedding and asked that this not happen to us.. AND warned them that we would not be having and handouts.. AT ALL....
Im_My_Own_Princess Posted:

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Posted by philsdeezy

It will be OK. How did you like your DJ?


what wil be okay?


um... DJ was okay... vinny played a lot of our must plays.. but also played a lot of music we did not ask for that was kind of a mood killer...
and we were supposed to do the father/daughter mother/son dance just before dinner... and that didn't happen right, but its not really their fault.

oh and our MC kept saying our last name wrong.. I went and corrected him and he still got it wrong.
IheartDanger1023 Posted:

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We have the same photog...I'm hoping they do well!

The crashers are total scumbags, including the bride. First off who hates their own wedding that much that they chose to leave it to plot and crash someone else's wedding?? Loser.

I'm sorry you had so many things happen the way you didn't want them to. I'm sure your guests enjoyed themselves and we'll all pray your pics come out amazing!

Im_My_Own_Princess Posted:

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Posted by IheartDanger1023

We have the same photog...I'm hoping they do well!

The crashers are total scumbags, including the bride. First off who hates their own wedding that much that they chose to leave it to plot and crash someone else's wedding?? Loser.

I'm sorry you had so many things happen the way you didn't want them to. I'm sure your guests enjoyed themselves and we'll all pray your pics come out amazing!




which photographer do you have?? I had nicole, who doesn't even live in this state.. while she really is a sweet heart, we're both very upset about the style of pictures and the response I got this morning when I tried to speak with the company via email.
IheartDanger1023 Posted:

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Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess


Posted by IheartDanger1023

We have the same photog...I'm hoping they do well!

The crashers are total scumbags, including the bride. First off who hates their own wedding that much that they chose to leave it to plot and crash someone else's wedding?? Loser.

I'm sorry you had so many things happen the way you didn't want them to. I'm sure your guests enjoyed themselves and we'll all pray your pics come out amazing!




which photographer do you have?? I had nicole, who doesn't even live in this state.. while she really is a sweet heart, we're both very upset about the style of pictures and the response I got this morning when I tried to speak with the company via email.



We have Nick. He seems nice and his photos were nice in the book he showed me. He asked a lot of questions about the types of pics I wanted and has worked at our venue many times so he's familiar with the layout etc. He seems open to hearing my concerns or desires. I'm gonna have to be very very assertive the day of and make sure that what I want is what gets done.

I'm sorry.
Im_My_Own_Princess Posted:

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Posted by IheartDanger1023


Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess


Posted by IheartDanger1023

We have the same photog...I'm hoping they do well!

The crashers are total scumbags, including the bride. First off who hates their own wedding that much that they chose to leave it to plot and crash someone else's wedding?? Loser.

I'm sorry you had so many things happen the way you didn't want them to. I'm sure your guests enjoyed themselves and we'll all pray your pics come out amazing!




which photographer do you have?? I had nicole, who doesn't even live in this state.. while she really is a sweet heart, we're both very upset about the style of pictures and the response I got this morning when I tried to speak with the company via email.



We have Nick. He seems nice and his photos were nice in the book he showed me. He asked a lot of questions about the types of pics I wanted and has worked at our venue many times so he's familiar with the layout etc. He seems open to hearing my concerns or desires. I'm gonna have to be very very assertive the day of and make sure that what I want is what gets done.

I'm sorry.



thats my thing, make sure you sit down and speak to him face to face before hand... make sure you show him MUST take and DO NOT take examples.. print pics and write DO NOT TAKE on them and MUST TAKE on them and hand him an example FOLDER...

I verbally told my photog what I wanted and didn't want.. and I guess she just wasn't listening.
jackieee Posted:

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cant believe about the toilet!! wtfffff insanity! and how/why did they let a bride in? I dont get why she would want to go into your party.

And a big sorry about the pictures. I hope they come out a million times better than you thought!!!!!! :(

everything else sounds awesome and im glad you and hubby were able to enjoy yourself...no day is perfect!
Future Mrs H Posted:

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The toilet overflowed in my bridal suite also- but that was because there were a bunch of kids running in and out and I am sure they were throwing things down it.
Not that I am making your concerns menial- but like you said the guests didnt even notice some of things that went wrong. All in all it sounds like you had a beautiful wedding- dont let the little things get to you. The main thing that you married your best friend.

The pics i do understand- I have concerns about my proofs. But like I told someone I work with today- they are still pictures and I probably wont even care 10 years down the road. I just have to make do with what I have.
bride2be1012 Posted:

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Wow, I'm so sorry that so much went wrong on your big day I really hope the photos come out well and surpass your expectations.

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