MY MOH

that is sooo stressful... i'm sorry that you're going through that with her

but i think that if she is close enough to you that you asked her to be your MOH, then you shouldnt let this aggravation come between the friendship. Have you tried telling her that 'i know i always talk about it, but wedding planning Really is something that consumes your Whole life!'... and that its also an exciting time for you, adn you want her to be able to share in that with you.

it reminds me of when someone will get a new boyfriend, and its ALL they ever talk about, and you wonder if theres ANything else that even matters to them. but then, you have to try to remember how exciting and new it is, and instead of being annoyed that they dont talk about anything else, you make the effort to share in their excitement. i think your MOH needs to make the effort to get past her reasons for not being happy for you, and realize that this is going to be such a special day, and your entitled to dote over it, and she should add to that, not take away from it by making you feel guilty about it.

either way though, i think that you should just talk to her about it,,, maybe she doesnt realize how much she's upsetting you with her actions?

good luck!!

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Posted by Lori0517

I have to vent about this. This girl is just annoying me. I realize I may be bridezilla right now but I think she can just help me or humor me. Instead she makes me feel like i am this bridezilla that has no life and talks only about planning my wedding. even that is what i am doing so what!!! sorry ladies it just aggravates me, I want to tell her if I am bothering her why doesnt she say she doesnt want to be in the wedding..FINE BY ME

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you always have us

yr MOH should undersatnd though

i agree with neenie

but you're right, especially as your moh she should try and be more understanding, but instead of getting angry and saying something like 'if you don't like it don't be in the wedding' which can totally RUIN your friendship, why don't you just stop a second, breathe and try to look at it from her point of view. but definitely let her know that what she said really hurt you and that you asked to her to be your moh because she means so much to you that you wanted to share all this with her especially.

good luck and try to calm down...your friendship means more to you than this argument i'm sure.

I do not talk only about the wedding. I am very last minute about doing things so I am trying to take everyone's advice and do things now so everything isnt rushed or too stressful in the end. I think she may be jealous but there is nothing i can about that. I wont tell her not to be in the wedding but I do not think this is the way a MOH should behave?

LadyPrincess thank you so much you always make me feel so much better.

I have been engaged since Feb this isnt the first time she has been in this mood. I addressed the situation and it was very long time before the wedding so I agreeed but now here she goes again.

Thank you ladies for all your advice