My MOH.......

My Maid of Honor has let me down so bad it's not even funny...... see my MOH is my sister in law i have known her since the day her and my brother started dating about 5 years ago..... now they are married gonna be 2 years in October and see now her and my brother are separated cause she is crazy and a i feel going through an early mis life crisis if you ask me.... but anyway not to mention i found out from a reliable source that she had an affair but again i am staying out of it...... but anyway she was suppose to be my right hand in all my wedding stuff and of course she forgot how to act and she is slacking on me....... the worst thing is that i mean most of my friends and family members are upset i chose her as my maid of honor.... and all my maid of honor does is prove to them that they are right...... she did nothing but talk about my bachelorette party since the day i asked her to be my MOH and here i am getting married in a little then a month and a half and she decided she wasn't gonna do it and now here i am doing my own cause it was too late to ask my bridesmaids to step in and pick up the slack only because i don't want them to know that they were right about my MOH....... sorry i wrote so much i just needed somewhere to vent cause all i am doing is crying...........

Just go to your closest bridesmaid and say, you were right about her and itwould mean a lot to me if you stood up next to me the day of my wedding. If they are a true friend, they will. I am so sorry you have to go through this so close to your wedding.

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Posted by CarolAnn721

Just go to your closest bridesmaid and say, you were right about her and itwould mean a lot to me if you stood up next to me the day of my wedding. If they are a true friend, they will. I am so sorry you have to go through this so close to your wedding.

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I agree...i don't think she deserves to stand by you at this point and I'm sure your bridesmaids will be understanding...sorry this is happening

i am so sorry to hear that!!!

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Posted by CarolAnn721

Just go to your closest bridesmaid and say, you were right about her and itwould mean a lot to me if you stood up next to me the day of my wedding. If they are a true friend, they will. I am so sorry you have to go through this so close to your wedding.

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I completely agree with this. Good luck hun

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Posted by CarolAnn721

Just go to your closest bridesmaid and say, you were right about her and itwould mean a lot to me if you stood up next to me the day of my wedding. If they are a true friend, they will. I am so sorry you have to go through this so close to your wedding.

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thats such a sad situation. but i agree here- its time she steps down from being your moh. its prob a weird situation bw her and your brother anyway. id ask her to either switch roles and be a bm, or just be a guest... good luck

Im sorry Im going through a similar situation with my sister/moh. it really *****.

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Posted by Windy

Im sorry Im going through a similar situation with my sister/moh. it really *****.

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Same with me!

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Posted by CarolAnn721

Just go to your closest bridesmaid and say, you were right about her and itwould mean a lot to me if you stood up next to me the day of my wedding. If they are a true friend, they will. I am so sorry you have to go through this so close to your wedding.

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I agree. I wouldn't want her to be my MOH knowing that things might not work out b/w her and your brother (not to mention the way she treated him) and that would make things awkward/weird/strange for everyone.

Your brother needs to fights his own battles with her over custody and what not. THis should be the happiest day of your life. Dont let ANYONE, not even a vindictive evil bi**h ruin it, because than your day wasn't all you wanted it to be. Anyway, these weird family things have a way of working themselves out over time. God knows I have had my own share. Good luck and best wishes with everything!!!!

YOUR WEDDING IS SO CLOSE!!! ENJOY EVERY MINUTE OF IT!!!

that sucxxxxxx!!!!!!!!! i hope it all works out for you!

going tthrough the exact same thing.... its come to a point where I will do things on my own and not depend on no one... The only person I really have is my FH....he even has helped me with my bridal shower and was there every step in wutever I needed.

I feel ask if the tables were turned I would bend over backwards but some people dont take this seriously and dont realize that their turn will come too.

Sorry, my MOH s*cks too. I don't even think I want to be her friend anymore.

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Posted by Suzie4

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Posted by CarolAnn721

Just go to your closest bridesmaid and say, you were right about her and itwould mean a lot to me if you stood up next to me the day of my wedding. If they are a true friend, they will. I am so sorry you have to go through this so close to your wedding.

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I agree...i don't think she deserves to stand by you at this point and I'm sure your bridesmaids will be understanding...sorry this is happening

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ITA! And I'm so sorry.

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Posted by CarolAnn721

Just go to your closest bridesmaid and say, you were right about her and itwould mean a lot to me if you stood up next to me the day of my wedding. If they are a true friend, they will. I am so sorry you have to go through this so close to your wedding.

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ita, im sorry youre going through this hunnie! at least you find out who are ur true friends

Sorry to hear this.... I would just be honest, it is going to come out anyway and you don't need the extra stress. Your BMs are your support, lean on them.