Ok this is going to sound so immature and pointless but I really need to just get it out. She does nothing! She made me pay for her to fly down from buffalo so she would be at my e party. She has no idea about any of my wedding plans because she never asks me. Today I decided to tell her about my news, my fh bought me my xmas present early, a new car. So I tell her and she responds that in her eyes my old car( an 02 camaro) and my new car(an 06 honda) are garbage. The girl is 22 years old with no license, if she needs to go somewhere I drive her. Cant she just be happy for me??! Oh and to top that off our next topic was my bachelorette party..my bridesmaids already planned it and reserved a hotel room for the weekend, and she had no clue because she wont respond to their e mail or phone calls!!! Can I demote her or something?!?
This just in...She just told me to pull the stick out of my a$$ and when I can think of something other than my wedding to talk about to give her a call...I quit
Ladies thanks for listening..sorry for my rant...just had to release the tension somehow
So she has still not called me back, I left her a nice detailed message about how upset I am, and that I wish I had known her true feelings sooner. I asked her why she would pretend to care. I always thought my moh was supposed to care more than anyone else, but I was seriously wrong! Now I am left to make a big decision, do I just leave her out of my wedding, or do I leave her out of my life?
MattsBride
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Re: My MOH makes me sooo mad! Updated!
I feel so bad that you girls are having a hard time with your MOH. I feel like the MOH should be the most supportive! Reading all this made me appreciate my MOH (sister) more, so I gave her a hug and kiss and said thank you for not giving me a hard time with everything!
I hope everything works out for you!
lipglossjunky73
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Re: My MOH makes me sooo mad! Updated!
I have to say that I knew what I was getting into when I chose my MOH's - 1 is my future stepdaughter who is almost 15, and I'm just not expecting much from her because she's young, and the other is my stepsister who I'm also expecting little from just because that's who she is - it was a decision I made so there would be no hurt feelings, but I'm pretty much the one putting all my plans and everything together (which is why I ask so many stupid questions on here!!!)
I have 2 BMs who are acting as the MOH's ( I call them my honoraries...) - 1 is one of my closest friends who is doing a lot to help me plan - esp. the party stuff that I'm not supposed to know about - and the other BM is a take charge sort of person who I can count on for everything.
I have to say that since I knew what to expect from the start, there is no way I can get stressed out by them! But I guess I feel better because I chose others in the party who I can trust...
