Well, i saw my MOH on last Friday. And when we went to get dinner, she was telling me she was going to leave her husband! Now, her husband is fh's best friend and his best man. So if she leaves him, she may drop out of the wedding because she doens't want there to be any drama.
Which i completely understand...but in a way, i kinda feel like she should decide by a certain time that way maybe she won't have to buy a dress and what not. I mean, i still would love for her to be my moh. but, they have a 5 month old and i would feel bad about her buying a dress and what not and then just dropping out.
I am seeing her tonight and will hopefully get to talk to her more about the whole situation.
do you think i should even mention to her she should know in a couple of months definitely if she will be in it or not? i mean she mentioned to me on Friday, but i don't want to come off like i don't care.
PROBM
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your wedding is a year away so much happens in a year... just be there for her during this rough time ... if she needs to drop out she will let you know and cross that bridge when you get there.. right now i am sure she is an emotional wreck
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Posted by PROBM
your wedding is a year away so much happens in a year... just be there for her during this rough time ... if she needs to drop out she will let you know and cross that bridge when you get there.. right now i am sure she is an emotional wreck
PERFECT advice. Who knows. Maybe she won't leave the guy. You never know what is going on right now. Sometimes people have that in their minds at the moment when things are bad but they could work it out. Either way, worry about it when it happens- it will work out either way!
I agree...wait on her...you dont want her to get the idea that 'its all about you'. Be a friend to her right now...thata all that matters...
babylin19
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thanks guys...the thing is this will be the 2nd time she's 'leaving' him. And she has said when she was pregnant, that if anything were to happen, that the baby would give her the strength to leave. i just feel bad all around!
vicky1125
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i would mention it only because i wouldn't want her to waste the money & then drop out.
lilpiggy742
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your wedding is a year away so much happens in a year... just be there for her during this rough time ... if she needs to drop out she will let you know and cross that bridge when you get there.. right now i am sure she is an emotional wreck
i agree completely, just be there for her right now. Im sure she will come to a decision and let you know on her own without you even having to ask.
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I am just speaking thinking if this was my moh... I love her more than life itself and if she was going through a hard time I would not bother her with that question until it was abs necessary.
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your wedding is a year away so much happens in a year... just be there for her during this rough time ... if she needs to drop out she will let you know and cross that bridge when you get there.. right now i am sure she is an emotional wreck
