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my mom is a psycho!!!!!

JPC1125 Posted:

my mom is a psycho!!!!!

After many fights in the past, I was shocked and touched when on Thursday she said she would pay for our invitations.
Well the shock has turned into complete awe at how seriously mentally ill my mother is.

Today I went to a grad. party for FH's cousin. All day long she called my cell phone 1st saying that she was going dress shopping, then to say she didnt find anything, then to tel me she was going to visit my hall since I didnt care enough to see the new renovations, then to tell me how it looked. Each time leaving a voicemail about how I never answer my cell phone (I was in a crowded restaurant and didnthear it ring you dumbazz!)

Well now I get a call from my dad at 10:30 pm to tell me that my mom is upset that I didnt call like I said I would. Well after our last conversation, I said I would call her TOMORROW to talk about going there for dinner. Well she heard me say I woudl call her tonight (she hears alot of things I dont say!!!!) And I hear her swearing and yelling at me up and down in the background how she doesnt want to talk to me or even look at me tomorrow.

Well since I haveto go see my brother to install a wireless card on his computer tomorrow, i will have to see her. But I am telling her I am taking my two gowns out of her guest room and my savings bond from my grandmother because I dont trust her with my things as long as she gets into these hurtful moods.

Thanks for the VENT - otherwise Id never get to sleep!
marc_rai Posted:

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Vent away! That is what we are here for. Good luck seeing your mom tomorrow.
February05 Posted:

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Im sorry, Jen
Happybride2005 Posted:

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JPC1125 Posted:

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Thanks Ladies.

I feel better now having slept it off but I am preparing for the worst.

Its sounds harsh but I am prepared to cut all ties with my family. Ever since I went away to college and especially now that fh and i are getting married, they have been horrible to me.
Im sure Ive posted about the fights with my mom on liw before

thanks for the ...at least I still have my 05 family with me
February05 Posted:

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Posted by JPC1125
thanks for the ...at least I still have my 05 family with me



Always! Good luck today- stay strong (moms can smell fear from a mile away)

Happybride2005 Posted:

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Posted by JPC1125

Thanks Ladies.

I feel better now having slept it off but I am preparing for the worst.

Its sounds harsh but I am prepared to cut all ties with my family. Ever since I went away to college and especially now that fh and i are getting married, they have been horrible to me.
Im sure Ive posted about the fights with my mom on liw before

thanks for the ...at least I still have my 05 family with me



don't do anything to harsh. fh was doing that this week with his brother. his brother called just as fh got in. he was in a bad mood when he called. the next day they said they were both wrong.

we're here for u

prncssrachel Posted:

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Hang in there. Families are odd that way. My mother has gotten all psycho on me in the past, but it's how you deal with it that makes a difference. Just don't let them know it phases you.

GoingNutty Posted:

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Sorry to hear about all this Jen You know where to find me if you need me!!
JPC1125 Posted:

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Thank you again everyone!

Well I expected the worst but got something better. I didnt get yelled at at all today for the miscommunication, which i was totally expecting. All of us had a nice day- we bbq'd in the backyard and my mom was pleasant.

Its alot more than I expected but I always feel like Im waiting for the other shoe to drop. Both my dad and brother told me today that living with her is like living with a timebomb- they never know when she will blow.

Does anyone know someone like this? Is there a word to describe symptoms of extreme anger like my mom has?


Thanks again for letting me vent last night and for the support.

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