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My mother just told me......

patticakes Posted:

My mother just told me......

That she thinks it's too late to send out my B list invitations-is this true? My wedding is 10/14. Only problem is, all the A listers aren't sending back their RSVP's? I only have about 8 people to send to but they are all from work-I don't know what to do!!! I am probably leaving my job next summer to move out of state-should I even bother? I do like these people so much though...most of the time
Jesses Girl Posted:

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send them out!!! haha I would...if the A-liisters dont want to respond, they are O U T! hah just playing..

i think u should send them out...it is enough time!
ali120206 Posted:

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When is your RSVP date? If it's like next week or something, it's definitely too late. If they have a little longer, you can send them!

patticakes Posted:

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Posted by ali120206

When is your RSVP date? If it's like next week or something, it's definitely too late. If they have a little longer, you can send them!



My RSVP date is September 14th...
ali120206 Posted:

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It's a little close but, if you mail them today, they'll have two weeks to respond.

Do you really want them there? Do you need them to hit your minimum? If the answer to both of those questions is no, don't send them out. Or if you are on the fence, don't bother (I've been having the great should I invite my coworkers debate too!)
patticakes Posted:

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I don't need them for my minimum but I go back and forth with this. I had to invite my bosses, which haven't responded yet and I did invite my two close coworkers, who are coming. I guess I won't send them out....

ali120206 Posted:

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Posted by patticakes

I don't need them for my minimum but I go back and forth with this. I had to invite my bosses, which haven't responded yet and I did invite my two close coworkers, who are coming. I guess I won't send them out....



That's tough since you've already invited people from work... I'd say don't do it!
CLMon7906 Posted:

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You definitely have time. She's looking at the RSVP date and thinking it's rude...but I've noticed most people don't know they are supposed to get 4-6 weeks to RSVP anyway.

ewickens Posted:

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Send them out. Most people who wait until the end, usually end up saying no!

sr081906 Posted:

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It's not too late but send them now.

Tracyann1976 Posted:

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I have the same dates as you... it's too late and it looks like a B list invitation.

libby2595 Posted:

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my date is a week before you and i just finished sending.... long story

i would send
luvabul Posted:

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um u have time, send them out!!

DanaRenee Posted:

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I'm in the same boat...

is the rsvp September 14th? If so, I'd say the lastest you should send them is Sept 1st..

I have 8 people on my B list and I havent gotten any no's yet... I dont know what to do!!! The lastest I will send mine for my 9/21 rsvp date is 9/7
kitty1224 Posted:

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Send it out. Don't waste time thinking about it, get it out.

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