My nerves are shot!

psychobride Posted: Apr 29, 2004 10:38 AM

My nerves are shot!

I have so much left to do. I could use to take off the next month from work so badly! I am really behind on getting things done and when I come home at night, we fight about everything with the wedding and I end up not wanting to get anything done. I still have to find a headpiece and veil and make a hair and make-up trial and appointment. I don't like the girl that cuts my hair, so I definately do not want her near me on the day of my wedding. Any suggestions for hair? Oh, I can't wait until all of this is over and I can live my life again. We still have a bunch of RSVP's that haven't come back. We are trying to find time to get our Priest and Rabbi together with us to finish our ceremony. Anyone else stressed out? Everyone sounds totally excited. Wish I was!!!

cknyc Posted: Apr 29, 2004 10:46 AM

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I am feeling a little bit of both--excited but stressed...especially bc work has been really stressful, and I have been sick on and off...trying really hard to not let it overcome me...I still have a million calls to make and things to do, and only have 2 weeks left!! YIKES!!!!!!!

maybe try setting aside a lunch hour each day to make calls and get things done, that is what I have been trying to do the last week or so!

tracyg Posted: Apr 29, 2004 11:16 AM

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edited- my friend just came today.... now maybe i can be a LITTLE less stressed!

I'm both nervous and excited. I'm nervous im going to forget something. as it is i forgot to give our dj our cake cutting song... i have to call back tomorrow anyway... but what if i forgot???

psychobride Posted: Apr 29, 2004 11:21 AM

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Thanks girls. Glad I am not the only one feeling a little crazed. I too am getting my friend and I am have been totally irregular my entire life. FOr the past few months, I have been getting it on the 29th of the month which means the day of my wedding. Just lovely! I called my GYN and left a message with the nurse saying that I want to go on the pill for 2 months so to not get it on my wedding day. You know...don't stop the cycle. She told me that my GYN is not prescriping the pill anymore b/c of his religion. Now, I have to find another way to get it. I will be damned if I get it on my wedding day and feel miserable all day!

cknyc Posted: Apr 29, 2004 11:51 AM

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That is so weird- how can an Gyno not prescribe medicine bc of HIS religion...not fair to his patients, I bet he loses a lot of patients that way.

I am irregular too, and I won't have it on my wedding day but on the honeymoon, so I am going to skip my 'sugar' pills and go right onto the regular ones, so I don't have it then...that would be a nightmare to deal with.

Glad I/m not the only one stressing out about all this stuff....

I just pray for good weather!!!!!! and that everyone dances and has fun...for some reason I picture it to be everyone sitting down and no-one dancing...I keep getting these crazy images in my head...

tracyg Posted: Apr 29, 2004 12:01 PM

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i worry about the no dancing too... i hope people will drink!!! Thats why i didn't want a sunday day wedding. But we had no choice. Oh well! we'll have fun at the afterparty!!! WOOOHOOOO!!!!

I'm a week late with my friend (which is normal in times of stress). But i just BETTER get it by this weekend so i can be finished by the wedding. Better not be one of those 2 week late times. (i'm feeling a bit crampy right now so i hope its coming! It likes to come on the weekends for some reason)

K, off i go to confirm with some people. I hate making phone calls.

tracyg Posted: Apr 29, 2004 12:11 PM

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And i have to confess something... ive been such a basket case lately that yesterday i was driving around doing stuff, and 'with you' by Jessica Simpson came on (a slower version)... and i started crying listening to the words. I jsut thought it was so sweet and so much how FH and I are, and how lucky i am.... i had to pull myself together before i went into the dry cleaners.

I'm a freaking mess!!!!

cknyc Posted: Apr 29, 2004 01:55 PM

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I am that way too lately..last night FI made me a bath bc I have been so stressed lately and..it was so sweet
yours is a week eariler then mine....wow it is close. I have been to plenty of sunday day weddings, and lots of people still drank and partied it up to the fullest, so you will be totally fine...

luckylucy Posted: Apr 29, 2004 10:16 PM

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I am the same way! My FH and I decided that anything we say this week does NOT count as anything! Way too much going on... WAY to much stress!! Don't worry ... it will all be ok!!