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Posted by kimnsteve
you can tell even by the pictures...i hope your aunt didnt spend a lot of money on that
I have an eve dress and I know how much they go for so if she spent that much on a knock of that really would be terrible
Posted by bluegreen08
wow! i cant believe that happened! that is horrible! the new dress looks nothing like the picture
i really do love your first dress a lot! the train isn't really my style, but it's detachable, right? you dont need to worry about bustling it...
you could also make it strapless and it would look beautiful.
hopefully you can figure tihngs out with your aunt too![]()
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what about looking at preownedweddingdresses.com ?
Sorry to hear that...there are warnings about buying dresses from internet sites because this specifically happens. It's too bad that a good gesture turned sour...good luck altering your current dress!
Posted by mariaobride
you see your original dress made such an impression that i remembered it in detail (of course not that it matters what i think)i never seen packaging like that before on a dress
something is definitely not right
Posted by WinterBride08
Posted by kimnsteve
you can tell even by the pictures...i hope your aunt didnt spend a lot of money on that
I have an eve dress and I know how much they go for so if she spent that much on a knock of that really would be terrible
Yeah I know...i'm really hoping she didn't...![]()
Posted by bluegreen08
what about looking at preownedweddingdresses.com ?
Posted by madseason
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Firstly - I would feel somewhat relived that this is not happening in August....we still have some time to work with!![]()
Second - I would really try and focus. Ok I was just dealt a major blow here... lets take some breaths and get very clear and put my emotions aside.. so now I can...
Third - Talk to your aunt. I would tell her the dress that was shipped is damaged through shipping and can not be worn. It is also not a real dress, and is made with unusual synthetic fabrics that are not the best suited for that day. I would be comapssionate with her and really be sorry that she spent money on something that didnt work out - especailly since her heart was def in the RIGHT PLACEI would also ask her where she got it from, because you are upset that she would try so hard to make a dream come true for you, and she was wronged ***again - do so after emtions had settled**
Fourth - then I would take a few days and see what I want to do... I would do some research.. If you really WANT that other gown - thats fine, but its time to get proactive. I would do some research - is there a gown that looks just like it....is there a place that might see a sample for cheaper...ebay (althought could be risky). But really figure out what you want in a dress and where to go from here!
Sort your feelings and emotions with this one and try to stay cool. Nothing we can do about it now, cant change what happened, but I would remember that no matter what to FH I am going to be the most beautiful bride!
and I would be greatful for a great aunt ... shes a good egg!
HTH sweetie!!!![]()
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Posted by madseason
Here is what I would do if I were in your shoes![]()
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Firstly - I would feel somewhat relived that this is not happening in August....we still have some time to work with!![]()
Second - I would really try and focus. Ok I was just dealt a major blow here... lets take some breaths and get very clear and put my emotions aside.. so now I can...
Third - Talk to your aunt. I would tell her the dress that was shipped is damaged through shipping and can not be worn. It is also not a real dress, and is made with unusual synthetic fabrics that are not the best suited for that day. I would be comapssionate with her and really be sorry that she spent money on something that didnt work out - especailly since her heart was def in the RIGHT PLACEI would also ask her where she got it from, because you are upset that she would try so hard to make a dream come true for you, and she was wronged ***again - do so after emtions had settled**
Fourth - then I would take a few days and see what I want to do... I would do some research.. If you really WANT that other gown - thats fine, but its time to get proactive. I would do some research - is there a gown that looks just like it....is there a place that might see a sample for cheaper...ebay (althought could be risky). But really figure out what you want in a dress and where to go from here!
Sort your feelings and emotions with this one and try to stay cool. Nothing we can do about it now, cant change what happened, but I would remember that no matter what to FH I am going to be the most beautiful bride!
and I would be greatful for a great aunt ... shes a good egg!
HTH sweetie!!!![]()
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G i am sooooo sorry! ! i would def say something just incase someone screwed her maybe just tell her its not the right dress maybe you can exchange it?? if u need to talk FM me
