My poor sister (MOH) dealing with the drama*****VENT

elysemichelle Posted: Apr 21, 2009 08:24 AM

My poor sister (MOH) dealing with the drama*****VENT

So my sisters planning my bachelorette party, and my bridal shower with my mom. One BM decided to ask mom if she can bring her BF to the shower!! THERE ARE NO MEN THERE!!! not even FH will be there!! ok so she is nicely told no. Now Bachelorette party, that same BM and i have been best friends since 8th grade, and so of course id expect her to be happy!!! Let me preface by saying a few things-- (to those of u whowere at the DnB G2G, this is the BM that was seeing FH's groomsmen while he had a gf). I met FH through her, so shes jealous im getting married before her. SHes now datng a guy for over a year, and he pays for everything for her. They go to mohegan sun what seems like once a month.

So heres the thing: we have been best friends for so long, and my sister is planning my bachelorette party. This is supposed to be a surprise to me, and this BM calls me to tell me the price of the trip and that its too expensive. So i speak withmy sister, and she changes the trip. there were other girls that couldnt afford the trip, and so they said somethingand my sister planned it MONTHS ago so they could afford it. So now its very inexpensive, and thisBM calls my sister and says 'i dont think we shoud go there, lets go here'. And my sister told her to research it ad shed see. then the BM asks to just cancel everything and go somewhere local.

Now my sister gets a call that says: i dont think its worth it to go at all.

I am so fed up with her!!!! My sis blieves its all becuz she will be away from her bf, and this is ridiculous!!!!

UGH!!!!!!!!!! Sorry for such a long vent! thanks for listening!

KerriJohnS Posted: Apr 21, 2009 08:48 AM

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She sounds like a jerk. Tell MOH to ignore her... and if she doesnt go then she looks bad. What an inconsiderate fool.

emric Posted: Apr 21, 2009 09:14 AM

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Sorry you have to deal with this!!! I know what you are going through. I am dealing with the same thing with my BM and MOH. I told them what I wanted to do and thay all said GREAT. I got a call from my MOH on Friday who said she's ready to give up on planning the bachlorette party 'coz she's getting grief - so I had to basically plan my own party and give up one of the things I really wanted to do. So, my MOH send out the invites and I get an email from the BM - questioning why are we doing the bachlorette party differntly now, then tells me 'well I just got a baby shower invite so we'll see if I can go to the bachelorette party now.' UUUGGGHHHH!!!
Why, why can't everyone just get along and do us right through this time.
Your BM may be jealous, she may just be selfish - I'm seeing that alot lately. Whatever it is - it's her problem, and don't let it get you!
Whatever happens - you will have a great time at your bachlorette party!

allegracristina Posted: Apr 21, 2009 09:25 AM

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Ugh you should not have to deal with OPP (other people's problems lol) for your bachelorette. Just tell your MOH to tell this girl if she's not interested, she's not included! You guys do your thing! F.uck this *****! Let her be miserable! You deserve to rock out and enjoy yourself!!!

michelle1024 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 09:35 AM

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Posted by allegracristina

Ugh you should not have to deal with OPP (other people's problems lol) for your bachelorette. Just tell your MOH to tell this girl if she's not interested, she's not included! You guys do your thing! F.uck this *****! Let her be miserable! You deserve to rock out and enjoy yourself!!!

ITA!!!!

She'll prob ruin you're good time anyway, go without her!

elysemichelle Posted: Apr 21, 2009 12:04 PM

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I know ladies. I completely agree. And that's what I told my sister, if she doesn't come, then that's that! Her loss!!! It just bothers Me that my sis has to deal with this!

littlepixie12 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 12:08 PM

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well I can feel your pain since Im going thru similar BP issues.. months ago my party was okay and everyone was down, no basically everyone doesnt want to go.. whatever.. honestly, I would just choose somehting you really want to do and set a day and have your sis or whoever collect the money ahead, if she cant go, then she cant go. dont go changing your plans for your BM.. she will probably flake out at the last minute anyway

caligirl87 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 12:09 PM

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Your poor sister... she probably put in sooo much time and effort and then this inconsiderate, rotten person has to try to ruin it all. ughhh... some people!!!

I hope you all have a marvelous time!!!!!