My shower...

surprise was almost ruined yesterday...i was at a surprise party for Fhs secretary at work and his bosses wife and my former bosses mom was there and they are invited to the wedding, so we sit down to eat dinner and the wife is about to say somehting and then shes like ooo do you know when you shower is and i was like no its a surprise and shes like it didnt say it was a surprise on the invite ....i was like i didnt even know the invites went out (i dont want to peak at my registry) so then she tries to back pedal and is like no they didnt go out and then when my bosses mom sits down (who is the wifes mother in law) shes like did your invite say it was a surprise.....Uh HELLOOOO you were just trying to say they didnt go out.

Ugh i was so mad the one time i see her in months she almost ruins my shower, so now i know invites went out which isnt a big deal but i know my mom is trying to be really sneaky and not tell me anything.

don't sweat it-- it will still be a surprise!!!
You don't know where or when or what the theme will be.