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I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I can't imagine the pain but stay strong and you will get through this. Better things are ahead. Sending you lots of

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Ohmigod, I am so completely sorry you are going through all of this. Please let us help you in anyway possible. And don't be afraid to cry your eyes out, I wish I had some words that could help in some way but I can't even come up with one except to say how sorry I am you are going through this.

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I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts. FM if there is anything I can do. Hang in there.

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Im so sorry you have to go through this. Its been said a million times, but every one of us is here for you

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Samara,

I am so so so very sorry to hear this horrible news. I know this is probably the last thing you want to hear right now but things happen for a reason. Be strong and try to stay positive, allow yourself time to heal don't try to hold it all in. He may come to his senses, he may just be folding under the pressure. My Fi has parents that are intrusive also and it just makes matters worse. I am her for you if you need to talk

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Oh my goodness--stay strong! If you need support, we're all here for you!

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OMG I am so sorry to hear this!

I wish I could say something to make you feel better....

Instead, i will offer you lots of and endless support!

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I am so sorry to hear about this.

We're all here for you!

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I am so sorry to hear that. I hope your family and friends keep you strong while you deal with this. take care.

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I'm sorry you're hurting right now. Please believe it will pass. One of my dear friends went through breaking off her engagement, and it was one of the hardest things she ever did. But she had the brains to know that if she wasn't happy with him (they fought all the time) that its would only get worse. 2 1/2 years later she met a wonderful man! and is engaged again. She would tell you how different and RIGHT it feels to be in a good, happy relationship. She would also be the first to tell you how she was in love with her ex but he didn't make her happy-he was just mean, and, again, they fought ALL the time. NOW she has a very wonderful relationship. When the break-up happened she visited her family, leaned on her Mom, took up some hobbies like tennis and knitting, and forced herself to go out with friends. She also read a lot and eventually her pain dulled, time passed and healed her heart, she went on with her life, and then she was available to meet her now FH, which would not have happened if she had remained scared and not had the strength to call off the wedding. Have courage, you will heal and being happy begins with making yourself happy, not someone else making you happy! You're in my prayers.

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I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how much pain you must be in. He sounds like he really has alot to learn and needs to grow up - He doesn't deserve a wonderful woman like you!! Honestly, I know it is hard to hear right now in the midst of the pain and embarrasement, but he was not the right one - This was probably a blessing in disguise. If you had married him, he may have up and left you and a few kids.

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Aww I'm soo sorry to hear this...stay as strong as you can and remember all of us are here for you...

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I am so sorry

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i am so sorry, can't imagine what you are going through!

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I am soooo sorry. Before I met FH I dated my ex for five years. We got engaged just before I found out he had been cheating on me for a good year. It was the worst feeling in the world! I know it's such a horrible thing to go through. I know you must be so depressed. Please remember that you are a wonderful person and that everyday it will get a little easier. You just have to make a commitment to yourself to get through it. Lean on people who love you for support and try to keep yourself occupied. Now is the time to put yourself first and to take care of YOU! There are plenty of things you want to do- and because you were going to be getting married- you probably put them on hold. Now you can do them. It's hard to identify yourself as a couple and then go back to being by yourself. Take your time and find the person you were before you met your ex.

I know it's the last thing you wan to hear, but it is true that there is someone out there who is a better match for you. You'll find them and they'll love you with all their heart and you'll be happier than ever.

If you need to talk FM me, we're all here for you.

Lots of hugs ,

Amy

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I'm so sorry. I don't know what else to say, so:

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Oh my God... what happend? I am sooo sorry. I don't know what to say please fm me if you need anything. Is their a chance to work it out? Is their anything anyone can do?

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I am really really sorry to hear what you are going through. In this time it is good to hear you are relying on your friends and family and of course your LIW friends. We are hear for you! For now here's a few hugs!!!!

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I am so sorry to hear that. Def. weird that he was still living at home. I can't imagine what you are going through, you probably have so many emotions right now. I hope we can help and that your family is supporting you. Please let us know what we can do.

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My prayers are with you, I am truly sorry that you have to deal with this. Hope this doesn't sound cruel but at least you found out now as opposed to right after the wedding. Everything happens for a reason. Be well.