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Elaina Posted:

Need Advice

Okay here it goes:
Fh and I were planning 2 honeymoons one for 5 days right after we get married and another cruise in the summer that we can bring our son (who will be 2 1/2 then) on. The thing is that his entire family both immediate and extended....including aunt and unce he hasnt seen in years are taking a cruise during the Febuary break...3-4 weeks b4 my wedding. (this has been planned for 2 years) I was fine with staying home but now im starting to feel guilty for both fh and my son since all of his cousins will be on the cruise! So i was thinking that we could go on the cruise (im off from work that week) and then instead of going on my honeymoon immediatley we would just take a weekend in poconos or something and take a 7 day honeymoon in the summer (alone) thereforew all are happy. Do you think this idea is ludicrous since ill be getting married so soon? Or do you think I might need a vacay at that point? SOOOO CONFUSED..I just want everyone to be happy.....
lillian771 Posted:

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Sounds like a good idea to me. A vacation before the wedding might be nice anyway, to help relax you before the big day. Good luck!

nov04LIbride Posted:

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There are a lot of last minute details that come up in the month or two before the wedding (invites, meeting with hall to discuss exact numbers and menus...etc.). But, if you do as much as you can in advance you should be fine! It would probably stress me out too much though.

nferrandi Posted:

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Lots of people have to hold off on their honeymoon for one reason or another, so as long as you're ok with it and you won't be resentful, I say go on the family cruise and take your HM in the summer. But really make sure you won't regret that decision, because you won't be able to go back in time and do it over.

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