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Need advice!!

Atchia Posted:

Need advice!!

Does love exist? Why does everything bad happens with me? Why me?
Why am I so unlucky?

I got married in Brazil some 3 months ago. I met Rick on yahoo chat. We talked to each other everyday on yahoo, skype, web cam and at some point in time we realized that we had fallen in love. Was it? At least I love him truly.
He came over to Australia (I was living with my aunty) and proposed me with a very beautiful ring. We had a very nice time together. He told me to come over to his place; we’ll get married and live together. I was madly in love with this guy but I didn’t want to leave my job. I worked as a pharmacist. Actually, I was studying medicine but in the third year of my course my dad passed away and thus there was no one to finance my studies. I got a job as pharmacist.
Rick told me that he will try to find a similar job for me in Brazil. On my part, I searched for a Brazil pharmacy directory where I got the address and the phone number of the pharmacies there. I phoned one pharmacy and they said that they can take me if I produce all my certificates and evidence of work experience. I left everything and went to Brazil against the wishes of my family. I was very happy with him and life was going on smoothly. After 2 months of marriage I came to know that he had an affair with someone and they still lived together. He has one son too. He had hidden everything form me. I know feel that I have done a great mistake. Life is no more as it was earlier and I haven’t got any job yet. I don’t know what to do and have no one in this world. Please show me a way out.
MikeandLisa Posted:

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maybe you could contact your family.. let them know you made a mistake, and ask for their support. the good news is you have a profession, and you've been independent before. i wish you the best.
bonitachyc Posted:

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oh sweetie that's just awful! try to go back home and start new. this guy sounds like a piece of work! i pray that things work out for you!
PaddysGirl15 Posted:

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sorry to hear about your story, but how did you not know about the other woman if they lived together? Did you not live with your husband? And did he not see his son for 2 months?

Sorry for all the questions, love does exist- and many of the brides here have happy healthy marriages with people that they met online. However, I think they spend a lot of real time with that person before they got married. Marriage is a HUGE commitment.
kahlua716 Posted:

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Seems to me like this is an ad for a mail order drug company....

If its true, I'm very sorry for you.
MJDoc12 Posted:

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Posted by kahlua716

Seems to me like this is an ad for a mail order drug company....

If its true, I'm very sorry for you.



my sentiments exaclty---who the heck puts the LINK to the drug pharmacy in their story??? and if she is from australia--and moved to brazil--what does that have to do with LIW?????

bella1028 Posted:

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I was thinking it all seemed so strange...thanks for the conformation

zookie Posted:

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dont worry everything will be ok . just come back home and start all over. that happened to me several times and my heart was so broken that i actualy gave up to finally know that the man of my dreams was right accross the street from where i worked for over 15 years . all i had to do was make a key . he owns a locksmith and al this time & years i always sent people to change locks and make keys and if i ever went to the place i would have found him . so you see dont you worry just come home and start all over let your old job know that your back and they should give you your job back .
things will be ok .

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