Need Advice!!

JBN81012 Posted: Nov 06, 2012 07:00 PM

Need Advice!!

I am a Catholic school teacher..
I went to Catholic school my entire life as well even for college and now in graduate school. I am meeting with the pastor of my school on 12/8/12 to book for our wedding. However, I am unsure if this is the church i want to marry in (not my home parish and refuse to attend Church at my home parish- so its not an option). Anyway, I was considering another Church where I went to elementary school as well as the reception hall. Do you think it would be offensive if I did not marry in the parish I work for?

newlyengaged75 Posted: Nov 06, 2012 07:16 PM

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i dont see it being a problem! after all its your day and you need to have it somewhere that you will be comfortable!

mattandjess2013 Posted: Nov 07, 2012 06:21 AM

Need Advice!!

It wouldn't be a problem. I'm a Catholic school teacher as well & I'm not getting married in the school affiliated parish.

Lori0413 Posted: Nov 07, 2012 10:47 AM

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Not at all offensive! Many people don't even get married in their home parish and that's not offensive either. You should get married in a church that YOU love.