I got invited to a bridal shower and rsvp'd yes. I just saw the bride to be post a picture online of her first batch of responses to her wedding and I never got an invite. The shower is a surprise. Should I text the sister who's planning the wedding and ask about this? I don't want to go to the shower if I'm not going to the wedding and if I'm on the B list I feel like I shouldn't have been invited to the shower just in case I don't get used for the wedding.
I think this really depends on how close you are to the bride or what your relation is. If you're invited to the shower most likely you are getting an invite to the wedding. It would be bad etiquette not to invite you in my opinion even if you were on a B list. It's also possible the bride is sending invites in batches? It's a tough call but I feel like if you ask they are just going to send you the invite whether they were going to or not anyway.
Well you would assume since you were invited to the shower that you would be invited to the wedding, however, some people are completely clueless. I don't think there is anything wrong with asking the sister. I wouldn't feel comfortable going to a shower knowing I wasn't invited to the wedding.
Posted by haw4
Well you would assume since you were invited to the shower that you would be invited to the wedding, however, some people are completely clueless. I don't think there is anything wrong with asking the sister. I wouldn't feel comfortable going to a shower knowing I wasn't invited to the wedding.
Posted by MsA2MrsA
Posted by haw4
Well you would assume since you were invited to the shower that you would be invited to the wedding, however, some people are completely clueless. I don't think there is anything wrong with asking the sister. I wouldn't feel comfortable going to a shower knowing I wasn't invited to the wedding.
ITA. Maybe your wedding invite got lost in the mail?
Posted by MsA2MrsA
Posted by haw4
Well you would assume since you were invited to the shower that you would be invited to the wedding, however, some people are completely clueless. I don't think there is anything wrong with asking the sister. I wouldn't feel comfortable going to a shower knowing I wasn't invited to the wedding.
ITA. Maybe your wedding invite got lost in the mail?
I was careful not to invite anyone from my B list to the shower for this exact reason. I would def ask the sister. I wouldn't want to go to the shower if I wasn't invited to the wedding. It's awk either way, sorry you're in this position!
I agree with everyone else, asking the sister wouldn't be a big deal, and it's best to double check and be sure!
