ok so my sister sent me a few dates for the bachelorette party and asked me to decide which i want....i narrowed it down to the two best options but im torn bc both have pros and cons
Date 1 --- All of my bridesmaids can go but it is the same day as my shower. I really didn't want it to be the same day because i just feel like it will be too rushed and i just wanted to make a whole day/weekend of the bachelorette party but this is the only date that all 9 bms can be there.
Date 2 --- One bridesmaid (my cousin) can't make it. I would feel bad if she can't be there but everyone else can go and it would be on a separate weekend than my shower like i wanted. It would also be the same weekend as FH's bachelor party which would be good bc i wouldn't be sitting home wondering what hes doing in Vegas
which would u pick?
netsirk10
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option 2. having it on the same day as your shower would probably be too overwhelming!
TheFutureMrsPM
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Id personally pic k the second choice
runnerbride1023
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I think you should do it the weekend that is not your shower. You will probably feel so overwhelmed after the shower I can't imagine wanting to go out and party after. Is it possible for your cousin to change her plans that weekend so she could come?
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I think you should do it the weekend that is not your shower. You will probably feel so overwhelmed after the shower I can't imagine wanting to go out and party after. Is it possible for your cousin to change her plans that weekend so she could come?
no she cant move it
LoveyDovey
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def option 2...stinky that your cuz can't be there but I agree that I'd prob feel too tired after my shower to party
20mrsc10
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i would say the 2nd choice
JAAMS
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i'd say 2..i think it will be too much to have shower and bach in one day
marinai7
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I'd pick the 2nd choice - I'm sure your cousin will understand and that way you don't have to feel rushed.
GR2010
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I voted for the second choice... it stinks that she won't be there but you're going to be exhausted after your shower and you're not going to want to go out and do anything after that.
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option 2. having it on the same day as your shower would probably be too overwhelming!
ITA
SoonToBMrsC
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IMO, I wouldn't want it to be the same day or weekend as my shower. I feel like that would just be to hectic. So, I would definitely go with opt. 2!
