Need advice on what to do about BM--sorry a bit long
I previously posted about my MIA bridesmaid. She is alittle depressed about her commitment-phobic BF and had made some comments.
Well, my shower was this past saturday, which was GREAT, I felt a bit overwhelmed, but it was a super time. She wasn't there. A friend told me she was at another wedding, which is fine, I'd rather she go to a wedding over my shower, but she hasn't called or anything since the shower.
My mom said she didn't offer to help or anything, there was no gift and my mom paid for the entire shower. My mom is a little upset and worried that she might not show up on the wedding day at this rate. I emailed her saying something like--we missed you saturday, I know you are super busy being a doctor but give me a call when you get a chance so we can catch up. Still haven't heard from her.
The lack of communication is getting me worried, what should be my next step or move if i don't hear from her soon? I don't want to jump to comclusions but when I talk to my mom or my friend (2 engaged co-workers today) about this, well, lets just say they are freaking out for me and making me a bit worried.
Oh, and just for some details--we are OLD friends but do not talk regularly or hang out regularly since she is a doctor in the city and it is difficult to meet up. (Our free time usually doesn't match)
Well, my shower was this past saturday, which was GREAT, I felt a bit overwhelmed, but it was a super time. She wasn't there. A friend told me she was at another wedding, which is fine, I'd rather she go to a wedding over my shower, but she hasn't called or anything since the shower.
My mom said she didn't offer to help or anything, there was no gift and my mom paid for the entire shower. My mom is a little upset and worried that she might not show up on the wedding day at this rate. I emailed her saying something like--we missed you saturday, I know you are super busy being a doctor but give me a call when you get a chance so we can catch up. Still haven't heard from her.
The lack of communication is getting me worried, what should be my next step or move if i don't hear from her soon? I don't want to jump to comclusions but when I talk to my mom or my friend (2 engaged co-workers today) about this, well, lets just say they are freaking out for me and making me a bit worried.
Oh, and just for some details--we are OLD friends but do not talk regularly or hang out regularly since she is a doctor in the city and it is difficult to meet up. (Our free time usually doesn't match)
