need advice quick EDITED!!!!!

PazzaRagazza Posted: May 22, 2011 04:17 PM

need advice quick EDITED!!!!!

so fh and i have two friends (a couple) that we had a brief falling out with around our engagement--- it was immature... but we've since gotten over it and have become a lot closer with them since.... we obviously have our bridal party... but REALLY want to ask them to be in our bridal party tonight when we have dinner with them---

do you think they'll be insulted????? we really want them to be a part o our day--- and what prevented it to happen earlier was just our tiny falling out.

THOUGHTS?!?!?!?! im having dinner with them at 730
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it went sooo sooo awesome and they are super excited!!!!!! I told them exactly what i felt and that we would want them standing next to us on that day!!!!!!
WOOP WOOP!!!

IrishAli Posted: May 22, 2011 04:18 PM

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Thy might feel weird- can you ask them to do something else at the wedding? Like be readers or bring the gifts up?

Kelli218 Posted: May 22, 2011 04:19 PM

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I don't think it would be weird if you were honest with them and explain yourself like you did to us... Life happens!

LoveyDovey Posted: May 22, 2011 04:57 PM

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i would totally ask them!

if you are close with them and it is mutual...then they will prob be so happy that you asked!

MrsTarricone2B Posted: May 22, 2011 04:57 PM

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If it were me, I would be honored to be a part of your day. If you want them to be in the bp I would absolutely ask them. I'm sure they will be ecstatic

kedra5 Posted: May 22, 2011 05:04 PM

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Posted by Kelli218

I don't think it would be weird if you were honest with them and explain yourself like you did to us... Life happens!

this

PazzaRagazza Posted: May 22, 2011 05:06 PM

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Love you all!!!!!!!!--- ill update tonight when i get back! xo

PazzaRagazza Posted: May 22, 2011 05:06 PM

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Posted by kedra5

Posted by Kelli218

I don't think it would be weird if you were honest with them and explain yourself like you did to us... Life happens!

this

p.s. its nice to see your face around here again!!!!!!

leighlo1226 Posted: May 22, 2011 06:02 PM

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do it!!!

DANAnPATRICK Posted: May 22, 2011 06:06 PM

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In my experience the 2 people that I added later on are the 2 that I've already had issues with and had to kick out of my wedding party.
I say just stick to the way you have it and just include them somewhere else in your wedding. If you easily had a fallen out with them once over something stupid it can easily happen again and why risk it during your wedding?