I was engaged several years ago. I came home one day and my fiance had passed away in our home. Fast forward several years later and I am getting married to a wonderful man. Problem. I have kept in contact with my late fiance's sisters, we were very close. Kind of drifted a little over the past few years, but been through alot together. Should I invite them to the wedding or will that be akward for me and my FH.
KellyS15
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I think that if you are close to them and they are supportive of your new marriage then you should totally invite them. But maybe you want to talk to your FI about it first and ask how he would feel because it is an important day for him and you don't want him to feel uncomfortable.
BTW...sorry for the loss of your first husband. That must have been so hard!
MrsB2BE
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I would talk to your fiance and see how he feels. If you have a close relationship with the sisters and they support your current fiance then I don't see a problem with it at all
Marchbride07
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invite them!
Wait let me start over
what a horrible thing for you to go through!
I am sure your late fiance's sisters want to see you happy and fulfilled in life and their brother is no longer here to do that. And I am sure your late fiance wants to see you happy to! I don't think it would be uncomfortable at all, they are people you share a bond with. Have you spoken to FH about this? I would think he would be ok with it, especially all that you have been through with them...
Just my opinion, HTH
Christys0925
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I have talked to my FH, he said it's whatever I wanted. The sisters, though they ask about him, when I tell them he is great the get quite, change the subject. Sometimes I won't hear from them for weeks. My late fiance was very abusive. Sometimes I have trouble being honest with them because they do not know. I am so confused
BubbasBride
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To be completely honest, if it was me, I wouldn't invite them. You went through a terrible experience and have come through it and found a terrific man. You want to celebrate that. I wouldn't be able to 100% enjoy myself if they were there because I would worry about how the sisters were feeling.
