Need bach party ideas~with a 16yr old to come~sorry long

Hey girls,

So, my bridal party who consists of 2 bm's and my sister who is my MOH, is starting to think of things to do for a bachlorette party. Only thing, my sister(MOH) is only 16yrs old.

My one bm emailed me that we should maybe go into the city and go dancing etc., but I said I wanted my sister included. I said that we could go out to dinner or something beforehand but then maybe try to go out with us and do something afterwards, possibly trying to get a place that will allow my sister to come in (I know, stretching a bit).

Well, my bm forwarded her the email saying we would drop her off at home (which my bm had wrote-not me) and my sister was upset. I guess she showed my mom, and my mom asked me why my bm would send the email to my sister. (Like I would know). My sister was upset bc she felt like my other bm's didn't want her to come and she wasn't welcome. My mom said she started getting tears in her eyes, and said that she would just lie and tell the other bm's that she had to work, so that we could go out without her. My sister knew that I wanted her there, and she told my mom that no, Janine wants me to go out with them.

So I emailed my bm's and let them know that I want my sister to be encorporated into what ever we do, and it if means not going out to a club, then that is fine. I'd rather remember spending time with all my bm's than remembering how my sister felt unwanted.

So, I need ideas for a bachelorette party that are 16 yr old friendly.

Thanks girls!