Need FH wedding gift ides...PLEASE

Hello Ladies, I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday

I started thinking about what to get the FH for a wedding gift. I was thinking about a really nice watch. But then I started thinking, he never wears them. I gave him an everyday watch a few years ago, and I can count on 1 hand how many times I have seen him wear it. He is not a big jewlery person especially because of his line of his work (electrician)

So, does anyone have any ideas on what to get??

He keeps saying how he wants that sharper image massage chair or a big screen TV (BOY TOYS)
I would love to get him that, but not until we can get a house.

Thanks a bunch, as always, ladies

Is he a jewlery person?? What about a pair of really nice cufflinks?

My fh is not a jewlery person at all but 3 years ago I got him a diamond cross and he LOVES it. Hasnt taken it off since the day I gave it to him.

If he is really into electronics more I would probably suprise him with the big tv. I know you say you dont want it until you have a house but if its what he really wants and what will make him the happiest I would go for it anyway

I suppose this suggestion is a bit strange, but it works for who we are: I'm going to have some artsy nude photos taken of me and have them matted and framed for our new bedroom.

A girlfriend of mine did this and her husband was thrilled, shocked, moved, surprised, and siked! My FH is going to love it...

I like the idea of things that are more personal. A toy can be bought for any occasion....

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Posted by Bunnymonkey

I suppose this suggestion is a bit strange, but it works for who we are: I'm going to have some artsy nude photos taken of me and have them matted and framed for our new bedroom.

A girlfriend of mine did this and her husband was thrilled, shocked, moved, surprised, and siked! My FH is going to love it...

I like the idea of things that are more personal. A toy can be bought for any occasion....

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I just have to ask, what do you do when people come over and want to see your house???

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Posted by Laura1976

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Posted by Bunnymonkey

I suppose this suggestion is a bit strange, but it works for who we are: I'm going to have some artsy nude photos taken of me and have them matted and framed for our new bedroom.

A girlfriend of mine did this and her husband was thrilled, shocked, moved, surprised, and siked! My FH is going to love it...

I like the idea of things that are more personal. A toy can be bought for any occasion....

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I just have to ask, what do you do when people come over and want to see your house???

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I say 'And here is my bedroom....' And they look at my bedroom. And then we go back to the LR or Kitchen. Do people hang out in your bedroom?

I suppose I should clarify.

When I say 'artsy' photos, I mean black and white images that are not in any way pornographic or even neccesarily revealing. They are taken at interesting angles (i.e - a close up pic of just half of my face and one breast - it doesn't look like nudity at first, you would have to get close up to really see) And if someone did get close up to see, we would not really be uncomfortable - we're both artists and pretty free spirits in that way.

A couple of ideas I am throwing around:
He is a virginia tech hokie fan so I may get him season tix to their games; cufflinks, laser surgery (he wants to get his eyes 'fixed'). Maybe if you are going on your honeymoon, getting him something for that like lessons for scuba diving or some wave runners. honestly, sometimes, guys just want to read words the morning of their wedding. I've had some friends who were strapped for money, send over an unexpected card with a single rose and tell him how happy you are, lucky you feel, etc. Sometimes it isn't the material things they are looking for but more their best friend (you) calming his nerves and showing him how lucky he is to marry you. Nothing cures a little bitty cold feet like the love of your life!

Thanks ladies, I love all the ideas