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Need good vibes pretty please

Jill52787 Posted:

Need good vibes pretty please

As many of you know I was in a bad car accident last year and since then, have had major anxiety when it comes to driving in bad traffic/unfamiliar places.

My MOH is coming up from Florida tomorrow and I have to pick her up. There was no way I could pick her up from the airport (which I feel terrible about) so her brother is going to pick her up and bring her to his job in Westbury. I am going to pick her up there.

I know this seems so silly but I would really appreciate good vibes. I have been crying to FH all night how my best friend is coming to a different state to pick out dresses for my wedding, and I can't even give her a ride without freaking out.

please hope for not much traffic and happy, attentive drivers for me to share the road with.

mds110286 Posted:

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anxiety is really tough to deal with. deep breaths and positive vibes coming your way! All will be okay tomorrow!
LindsaylovesJustin Posted:

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This doesnt seem silly at all. I had a horrible car accident at 19 which is why I moved to NYC (I was thinking of going to LA)

I am almost 25 and JUST got my permit to start learning to drive again.

Be brave my love!
nilla24 Posted:

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I'm sure you will be fine!

good vibes!
MrsJPH2012 Posted:

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I understand you feel guilty, but hopefully your best friend completely understands. Its not like she is taking a taxi all the way out, you've ensured she has arrangements.

Being back on the east coast for the first time in years has made me nervous driving and FH isn't used to it AT ALL, and I've been worried we will get in one too. Just stay confident and you'll be fine
AlexandMike2012 Posted:

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I understand the anxiety and I understand the guilt....both are no fun...good vibes heading your way xo

roblisa09 Posted:

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Posted by Jill52787

As many of you know I was in a bad car accident last year and since then, have had major anxiety when it comes to driving in bad traffic/unfamiliar places.

My MOH is coming up from Florida tomorrow and I have to pick her up. There was no way I could pick her up from the airport (which I feel terrible about) so her brother is going to pick her up and bring her to his job in Westbury. I am going to pick her up there.

I know this seems so silly but I would really appreciate good vibes. I have been crying to FH all night how my best friend is coming to a different state to pick out dresses for my wedding, and I can't even give her a ride without freaking out.

please hope for not much traffic and happy, attentive drivers for me to share the road with.




I totally understand you. I was in a terrible accident too and I avoid driving as much as possible. And when I do drive I am very tense.

You'll be fine stay positive and think happy thoughts!
pixietina Posted:

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I totally understand how you feel. The anxiety is horrible. Your friend will understand so don't feel so bad. Sending good vibes and remember baby steps.
MrsCtoBe5512 Posted:

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good luck!!! it's only natural to have anxiety following an accident. don't push yourself to get over it too fast, but take it slow and you'll get there. I have faith in you!
Jill52787 Posted:

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AHHH your good vibes worked!!

I did it minus any panic attacks!!!! I am on cloud 9 right now!!! FH is so proud of me that hes taking me out to dinner tonight lmao!!!!!!! The little things!
mds110286 Posted:

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Congratulations on your triumph!! Im so happy for you!!
lindseynaggle Posted:

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Glad you made it! Have fun with your MOH!
pixietina Posted:

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So happy for you!

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