need help

ok so its way to long and hard to explain but here are the facts.

There may be 2 people in the world that I hate... and FH lives with one of them. she is dating his best friend/BM

I tried to be civil, that worked for a bit, but long story short, not anymore. I cant even stand to be in a room with her. I really would love to put her in her place but cant because of who she is and the trouble it will cause those i actually care about.

The problem comes in that i despie going to FH house now. (he lives in a 5 bedroom house with friends) because i cant be around her. I used to cook for him all the time and i kow its a flaw on my part, but i cant stand her that much! I go there, and go straight to his room ( he has the whole downstairs apt)

Its just wearing on me, i feel like a guest in my FH home and it kills me!!! We are trying to find a house but havent been successful yet...

any words on what i can do to better the situation?

Does FH know how you feel? What does he say about it?

What exactly is it that you hate about her? Is it something you can talk with her about?

he knows i hate her, he doenst like her either. No one does really....

i actually extended the olive branch numerous times and the last time she insulted my relationship, my mother, FH's mother, and basically illustrated that she is a waste of space.

she walked out on my during lucnh because i refused to let her patronize me and things were fine. I was okay ignoring her. If i had to talk to her, I would.

THEN she fbooks me and basically calls me fat and says she will help me loose weight and that she wants to be besties again ( i NEVER LIKED HER) she is a nut job.

I really wantto crack her in the face, but again, cant since she has FH best friend whipped.

Ohhhhh i remember you telling us about this girl. Ugh, this is a disturbing situation. You may just have to suck it up for a few more months

its gotten worse since then too...

I agree with Laura- unfortunately, you just have to suck it up until you and FH move in together. I mean the only way it could go now is you kicking the cr@p out of her and that’s not an option. Here are some

i'll crack her in the face for you