NEED HELP!!!

Ok... so I know I wrote recently about how things were disasterous with my shower/BP.

Anyway... I still haven't heard from my MOH after repeatedly trying to get in touch with her. One of my BMs has heard from her, but yesterday, and my MOH was SHOCKED that everyone felt out of the loop. FSIL still hasn't been contacted by MOH. More importantly, my mom hasn't been contacted by MOH.

My shower is THIS Sunday.

The problem is:
My MOH is my cousin and it's also her BIRTHDAY.


What do I do? Do I acknowledge her birthday? If I do, I have to acknowledge my friend Stacy's birthday as well. Do I get her something? Anyone know of any quick gifts - I'm terrible with gift ideas.


HELP!!!

If you guys normally exchange gifts, then I would say you probably should. I would definitely wish them a happy birthday, and maybe get a card. In the way of gifts, although some find it less personal, a gift card should suffice, as they should totally understand that you are crazy busy 2 months away from your wedding ...

As far as the shower goes, I wish I knew what to tell you ... I had a situation during the planning process of my shower - it was supposed to be a surprise, and I kept hearing that people weren't cooperating. I finally lashed out and said not to throw me a shower at all, I wasn't supposed to know anything about it, and all I kept hearing was negativity surrounding it. It ended up doing the job - all the girls came together and threw me a fabulous party!

Thanks Nikki!!

I've said before that I don't want a shower after all this drama. And EVERYONE is coming to me to complain that she hasn't called them back. I mean come on ....

I'll get them both a cupcake or something to celebrate - and as far as my cousin - I'll figure out something. I just wish she'd call people!

I think you should acknowledge their birthday and i think a cupcake with candle would be nice.
But for a gift, i dont know if thats necessary unless you normally exchange every year.

im sorry your having all this drama for your shower but i hope that it will all work out and you will have a great shower and really enjoy it!

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Posted by SoonToBeEMM

I think you should acknowledge their birthday and i think a cupcake with candle would be nice.
But for a gift, i dont know if thats necessary unless you normally exchange every year.

im sorry your having all this drama for your shower but i hope that it will all work out and you will have a great shower and really enjoy it!

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ITA