NEED HELP! Bachelorette party a flop? (long, sorry)

Kris0703 Posted: Jun 21, 2007 12:46 PM

NEED HELP! Bachelorette party a flop? (long, sorry)

Hey ladies, I really need some help and fast! One of my best friends bachelorette party is THIS SATURDAY and it is falling apart! Three of her 'closest friends' (and BM's) have now dropped out of attending, saying they suddenly can't get off of work...(BS if you ask me). So now in a race to have more then 3 people at her bachelorette party she decided to open up the invitation to more people. Yes, she pretty much planned the party bc MOH is her little sister that is underage. So, now we have 4 more girls coming, great...right? Did I mention it is her little sister and cousins - all uner 21!!!! She doesn't want to disinvite them and is happy bc it isn't 3 of us anymore, but now what do we do??? We have plans to go to Flynn's in Ocean Beach for dinner and just stay in there, hoping that once the younger girls are already inside, they will not ID. But there is alot of 'if's' here. I feel horrible that her day is becoming a flop and wish there was something else I could think of to do. I know she definitly wants to go to Flynn's for dinner, or and we are getting nails done from 2-4. Can you guys suggest anything else I could do for her?? Maybe between nails and dinner (4pm-6pm) or something after dinner?? Keeping in mind that we have 4 underage girls??? Please ladies, any ideas would be helpful. I would hate to see her have a horrible day! Thanks!!

BrideToBe24 Posted: Jun 21, 2007 01:03 PM

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what if you did a place like Dave & Buster's? You can get dinner there and then once you're in they shouldn't have an issue with the girls as long as they aren't drinking....

HM807 Posted: Jun 21, 2007 01:11 PM

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I had a similar situtaion happen to me. If you are willing to change the plans...I have the best solution. The Awesome 80's Prom is 19 to party 21 to drink. When the Prom portion of the night is over they let you into Webster Hall for free. Once the girls are in, they won't be asked to leave.
Hopefully you can do that.
To get discount tickets use broadwaybox.com

davenjess Posted: Jun 21, 2007 01:16 PM

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We had a similar thing with my MOH's party last year.. We did the Awesome 80's Prom as well - it was WONDERFUL! Cannot rave about it enough! If your friend likes to dance - there is nothing more perfect!!!

MnM52607 Posted: Jun 21, 2007 01:17 PM

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Posted by b2b777

I had a similar situtaion happen to me. If you are willing to change the plans...I have the best solution. The Awesome 80's Prom is 19 to party 21 to drink. When the Prom portion of the night is over they let you into Webster Hall for free. Once the girls are in, they won't be asked to leave.
Hopefully you can do that.
To get discount tickets use broadwaybox.com

I did the same thing because my sister is only 18. But we did leave after the prom so I don't know if they would have questioned my sister.

I definitely recommend this. We had a great time.

Espo22 Posted: Jun 21, 2007 01:22 PM

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Webster hall is 18 for girls to get in 19 for guys

GinaZ Posted: Jun 21, 2007 01:30 PM

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Posted by BrideToBe24

what if you did a place like Dave & Buster's? You can get dinner there and then once you're in they shouldn't have an issue with the girls as long as they aren't drinking....

I hear they start going around and carding after 10 or something- dunno if that is true though.

Im sorry this is happening! Id be upset too. What if you guys got a room at a nice hotel and had a girly sleep over party? Then ages wont matter!

HM807 Posted: Jun 21, 2007 01:37 PM

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They def don't card. Once your in the prom, you are inside the club and can move from room to room as you wish.

JennysMOH Posted: Jun 21, 2007 01:41 PM

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For my BF party, we went to D&B. We had one BM that was underage and didn't want her to feel left out. Plus Bride is very competitive and loved beating everyone at the games. We left after midnight and no one had carded her.

Kris0703 Posted: Jun 21, 2007 01:42 PM

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Thanks girls! All awesome ideas!!!!!

davenjess Posted: Jun 21, 2007 01:43 PM

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Dave & Busters entirely depends on which location you are at. Some of them do card, my FH & I are huge fans of D&B. We've been at some that will literally find all underage people after 10 (they make announcements) but we've been at others who I guess feel if the younger people aren't causing trouble - they do not have to leave...

It's really up in the air about that... You could always call ahead and explain the situation...

hunnybunnyxoxo Posted: Jun 21, 2007 04:20 PM

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i wouldnt do dave and busters for a bach party. you can do that any old night. this should be special- something a little different
why dont you have a spa party instead?
there are many hotels that have spa packages.otherwise awesome 80s prom sounds great.

Espo22 Posted: Jun 21, 2007 04:23 PM

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OH WAIT I HAVE A GREAT IDEA!!!!!!!! this past weekend Fh's close friend's gf rented this suite in a hotel, it was HUGE and gorgeous, bought kegs, alcohol and everything and the suite had a balcony on the first floor but on the 2nd floor had this BIG outdoor deck with tables, lounge chairs and it was GORGEOUS...the hotel was called 60 thompson, you can look it up. Maybe everyone chip in or even get a regular room which were also gorgeous and the hotel has their own rooftop bar which is great. Or you can do this at another hotel, go to dinner then do that

hunnybunnyxoxo Posted: Jun 21, 2007 04:28 PM

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wait i had another idea, i was going to do this for my bach party- there is this guy called DJ Chef-
he cooks and djs. He brings all the ingredients, cooks, and he cleans up afterwards. it sounds like so much fun b/c everyone cooks together, has a few drinks all while he mixes music..

worth a shot. you can google him or do a search on LIW for DJ CHEF.

Good luck!