I need some advice.. I am already having 7 gals and 7 guys in the wedding party and 3 people doing readings. The gals that are in the wedding party are my sis, my cousin and 5 gals i went to high school with. I didnt even put another one of my friends in that i was in her wedding in june, i asked her to do a reading. My brother is in also. I am close to my bros g-friend, they have been together for over 3 years and would love to include her in someway, just not sure how. Should i ask her to be in the wedding party? or is that not necessary? is there anything else i could ask her to do to be included? Ahhhh, i wish i could include everyone, it is so hard.
nferrandi
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Of course it would be nice, but it's not necessary. You already have a substancial BP and I don't think you need to be obligated to make it even bigger. I would however talk to your bro-s girlfriend and let her know you woullove for her to be a part of your wedding, but since there are already a certain amount of people, you really can't add to it. You can always blame your FH and tell her he doesn't want an uneven BP and he doesn't have another guy he would want on his side.
Ldybug8
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Posted by nferrandi
Of course it would be nice, but it's not necessary. You already have a substancial BP and I don't think you need to be obligated to make it even bigger. I would however talk to your bro-s girlfriend and let her know you woullove for her to be a part of your wedding, but since there are already a certain amount of people, you really can't add to it. You can always blame your FH and tell her he doesn't want an uneven BP and he doesn't have another guy he would want on his side.
Thats hysterical, my FH doesnt want an uneven BP and if it was important to me to put her in he would ask one of my best friends (a guy) to be in. He is doing a reading right now. I agree, i dont think it is necessary but still feel bad not including her. Maybe she could be a flower girl hehehehe.
MuchInLuvMichi
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ok this is jmo based on something that happened to me.... i was dating my ex for 3 years..we were soooo in love everything was amazing...so his brothers wife asked me to b in the bridal party, i was close with his family.....long story short...me and my ex ended up breaking up and all hell broke lose cause i was in the bridal party..id ask her to do something that incase god for bid they break up b4 the wedding (not saying they will--but just incase) u will not feel like ur wedding is messed up lol...JMO
Ldybug8
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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi
ok this is jmo based on something that happened to me.... i was dating my ex for 3 years..we were soooo in love everything was amazing...so his brothers wife asked me to b in the bridal party, i was close with his family.....long story short...me and my ex ended up breaking up and all hell broke lose cause i was in the bridal party..id ask her to do something that incase god for bid they break up b4 the wedding (not saying they will--but just incase) u will not feel like ur wedding is messed up lol...JMO
Wow, that is crazy, thanks for the advice.
Dom n Nic
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my fh would flip if it was uneven lol
J&S
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I was in my FH's sisters wedding when we were going out for 3 years at the time (not engaged). I was very honored but I did not expect it and I would not have been upset if I was not included. So my answer is I don't think it's necessay but do what makes you happy.
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Posted by J&S
I was in my FH's sisters wedding when we were going out for 3 years at the time (not engaged). I was very honored but I did not expect it and I would not have been upset if I was not included. So my answer is I don't think it's necessay but do what makes you happy.
thanks, i think she would feel the same way..totally wouldnt expect it at all
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I don't think it's necessary either. I had one of my friends stay in the back of the church and make sure programs and petals were passed out.
I was in an ex's sisters wedding once. We had gone out all through college. I'm sure his wife loves looking at her in-laws photo album
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I think it would be a wonderful gesture to include her in someway you never know she might turn out to be your FSIL. I was thinking of having butterflies and another bride suggested having one of my close friends that I couldn't include in the BP open the nets or read the traditional poem that goes with it. Although we deceided against the butterflies maybe something along those lines she could be in charge of.
