Need Hugs Girls

Need Hugs Girls

Do you ever feel like you are never going to be able to pay for everything for the wedding? I go through phases - sometimes I think it will be fine and other times I think I'm crazy for trying to do this. Well today I feel crazy for trying to do this I'm just thinking in my head all the things we still have to pay for and if we will be able to swing it. We are getting an apt and have to start paying rent soon and it all feels like so much. I even started a second job this weekend and FH works a second job and it still feels like it isn't enough. I know it will probably all work out in the end and that's what FH keeps telling, but I'm just worried about it. Anyone else feel like this?? I guess I just had to vent - thanks for listening!

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I think most people feel that way. But think of it this way, most people will have the wedding. Never heard of a cancellation of a wedding because of lack of funs. Me and FH wanted to pay for things as we go, but will probably need to put 25% of the wedding on credit cards. Just pay as much as you can and work on paying off those cards, loans, etc with any money you recieve from the wedding. Remember there are some things you can pay the balance for after the wedding, photo, video.

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Dont get stressed. It will work itself out

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I feel like this 90% of the time sweetie...I think it is normal! Hang in there I am sure it will all work out!

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i hear ya on that one!!!!! im the only one saving right now for this wedding. we are buying a house so fh is paying for that, but once we move in im gonna have to start paying for some bills and thats gonna take away from my money for the wedding sometimes i think ok we can do it, but other times i want to just cry and scream bc i know its gonna be tough, but just remember....it will all work out!!!!

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We DEFINITELY feel this way A LOT!!!

For the past two years, I've been in and out of the hospital (6 major surgeries). So to say the least, medical bills are not pretty!!

I currently am not able to work due to my condition so my FI's income is all we have. We are doing good right now, but none of the MAJOR deposits have come up yet. We've paid all of our small ones for now...... ;)

Try not to worry about it too much. That will just add extra stress. It will all work out......one way or another



Just let us know if you need to talk! We're here for you

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Honey you are not alone. I feel like that ALL the time. I currently dont have a real job..I work pt time as a receptionist making crap for money, but the reason for that is because I am finishing my BA in speech pathology this December. But I am afraid that I wont get a good paying job in Dec and that I wont be able to pay for the wedding and even afford to live on my own with my FH...but then I think about it..and I tell myself everything will be ok...and you know what..It will be ok. So dont worry about it

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Tracy I feel like that everyday!!! And it will probably get worse as it gets closer. I know that it will work out so I dont stress too much but some days are worse then others. Dont worry-you will get it all together!!!

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I feel this way. I think we will be fine with paying for the wedding but I am afraid of after the wedding. How will we come up with a down payment for a house? And furnish this house? That's what gets me.

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Thanks girls - you all made me feel better about it

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