So my FH and I were set up on a blind date by a co-worker of mine. FH and her husband have known each other since they are about 13.
I feel like we should do something for them, but not sure what. Should I dedicate a song to them at the RH ?
MRSin2009
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I think a song would be a great idea and I am sure they would love that.
atlast314
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She has said (jokingly of course) that we should pay her a 'matchmaker fee'. I almost don't want to do anything, but lately she's been on the quiet side and I think its b/c I haven't shared or included her in any of the plans.
In a way I feel that I don't need to do anything.
What have others done for their matchmakers ?
Sharron70
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Were you going to do the BoK toss? Perhaps instead you could formally hand it over to them as a couple and maybe say a few nice words in front of everyone.
snwb08
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are you doing a thank you toast? if so, you can thank them both for introducing you... like in When Harry met Sally.
my sister was set up by her co-worker; they didn't acknowledge it in any way at their wedding.
atlast314
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No, I wasn't doing a bok toss, but I really like the idea of the toast.
I'll mention that to FH.
Sharron70
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Toast would definintely be lovely. Maybe instead of your bok, you could have a nice arrangement made just for them.
mariaobride
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maybe you can ask them to do a toast they may be honored being that they are the matchmakers also would be interesting to hear what they have to say about you & fh dating my bm who played matchmaker is dying to say a toast for us HTH!
atlast314
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Thats a great idea, this way FH and I don't have to prepare the toast. I'll leave it up to him since its his BF.
Like I said, she's been a little cold towards me for the past month so it doesn't matter to me. Could be something totally unrelated, but still weird.
Thanks.
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Posted by Sharron70
Were you going to do the BoK toss? Perhaps instead you could formally hand it over to them as a couple and maybe say a few nice words in front of everyone.
That is exactly what I was thinking... i think that would be a great jesture.... and say something to the effect of 'if it were not for them we would not be here today...'
