Need opinion.......

I'm all for any personal touches that would make your wedding day even more special to you and your fiance. If you want to have photos of loved ones who have passed away, definitely do it. If that helps you feel they are with you, go for it. I think it is very nice.

You need to grow up and realize your own mistakes. Instead of taking constructive criticism, which you don't even know how to give yourself, you have gotten very defensive. Seems immauture to me, but I don't know you and maybe you are having a moment of the 'wedding stresses.' We all get them. I wouldn't be embarrased. I would try and make the situation better...Something for you to think about.

How about adding a little caption on the bottom of each picture to tell who they are...like 'Joe and Jane Doe, grandparents of the groom' If I were a guest looking at the pictures, it would say more...you know??? :-)

Best of luck...I think it's a wonderful idea...I'm probably going to do that, too!