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need opinions for upcoming hair trial

snwb08 Posted:

need opinions for upcoming hair trial

I'm going for my first hair and makeup trial in two weeks and I honestly have no clue how to do my hair. My dress is a casablanca (I'll try to post it) and it was strapless but I had the neckline changed to a v-neck. I wanted to wear my hair down and curly, but my sister was there and said that with a v-neck it wouldn't look good. Then i figured out that so many girls are wearing their hair down now because most dresses are strapless so it looks really good... I'm not really into a full updo - I don't want that super formal look. I also have NO idea if and what I'm wearing in my hair - I want a mantilla veil (if I do a veil) but i wouldn't wear it the whole night. I know she's going to ask me what I want, and I'm clueless! My hair is pretty long; I'm letting it grow for the wedding. Any ideas? Also, did everyone have their veil/headpiece for their trials?? I wasn't even going to look until after new year's.

thanks... sorry so long. here is my dress (but with a v-neck) obviously the girl in the pic is no help b/c she looks like some weirdo nutcase.


ZKAT22 Posted:

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maybe you can have your hair partially up, most of it down and all curly.

something like this

Espo22 Posted:

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so do yourhair down if thats what you want. Do you mean you have a sweatheart neckline, i have never seen a strapless v-neck regardless a strapless dress goes with hair down...PLUS you're wearing a mantilla, honestly i cant picture a mantilla veil with an updo, it goes better with hair down

i have a bunch of hair pics in my album, mostly down and some half up
snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

so do yourhair down if thats what you want. Do you mean you have a sweatheart neckline, i have never seen a strapless v-neck regardless a strapless dress goes with hair down...PLUS you're wearing a mantilla, honestly i cant picture a mantilla veil with an updo, it goes better with hair down

i have a bunch of hair pics in my album, mostly down and some half up



no, the dress is originally strapless but they are changing it to a v-neck for me because I don't like the way strapless looks on me. my sister is saying somehow I should show off my neckline b/c it's one of my better features (i.e., disproportionately small compared to the rest of me!)
snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by ZKAT22

maybe you can have your hair partially up, most of it down and all curly.

something like this




I really like this!!!! thanks. I even like what's in her hair.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

so do yourhair down if thats what you want. Do you mean you have a sweatheart neckline, i have never seen a strapless v-neck regardless a strapless dress goes with hair down...PLUS you're wearing a mantilla, honestly i cant picture a mantilla veil with an updo, it goes better with hair down

i have a bunch of hair pics in my album, mostly down and some half up



no, the dress is originally strapless but they are changing it to a v-neck for me because I don't like the way strapless looks on me. my sister is saying somehow I should show off my neckline b/c it's one of my better features (i.e., disproportionately small compared to the rest of me!)



so it will have straps then? well regardless it should go and honestly its your wedding not your sisters, do what style you like not what she likes, and again take into consideration your mantilla veil otherwise if you do an updo or anything then maybe get a different veil
snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22

so do yourhair down if thats what you want. Do you mean you have a sweatheart neckline, i have never seen a strapless v-neck regardless a strapless dress goes with hair down...PLUS you're wearing a mantilla, honestly i cant picture a mantilla veil with an updo, it goes better with hair down

i have a bunch of hair pics in my album, mostly down and some half up



no, the dress is originally strapless but they are changing it to a v-neck for me because I don't like the way strapless looks on me. my sister is saying somehow I should show off my neckline b/c it's one of my better features (i.e., disproportionately small compared to the rest of me!)



so it will have straps then? well regardless it should go and honestly its your wedding not your sisters, do what style you like not what she likes, and again take into consideration your mantilla veil otherwise if you do an updo or anything then maybe get a different veil



I know what you're saying but i've been so clueless about the wedding stuff that I want other people's opinions... I think she's right that fully down wouldn't look as good. maybe something more like the other pic. I'll either do no veil or a mantilla - it's the only kind I like, and if it's too much with the dress then I'll just skip it and wear stuff in my hair (MUCH to the major disappointment of my mom and sisters!)

the neckline is more like this


Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22

so do yourhair down if thats what you want. Do you mean you have a sweatheart neckline, i have never seen a strapless v-neck regardless a strapless dress goes with hair down...PLUS you're wearing a mantilla, honestly i cant picture a mantilla veil with an updo, it goes better with hair down

i have a bunch of hair pics in my album, mostly down and some half up



no, the dress is originally strapless but they are changing it to a v-neck for me because I don't like the way strapless looks on me. my sister is saying somehow I should show off my neckline b/c it's one of my better features (i.e., disproportionately small compared to the rest of me!)



so it will have straps then? well regardless it should go and honestly its your wedding not your sisters, do what style you like not what she likes, and again take into consideration your mantilla veil otherwise if you do an updo or anything then maybe get a different veil



I know what you're saying but i've been so clueless about the wedding stuff that I want other people's opinions... I think she's right that fully down wouldn't look as good. maybe something more like the other pic. I'll either do no veil or a mantilla - it's the only kind I like, and if it's too much with the dress then I'll just skip it and wear stuff in my hair (MUCH to the major disappointment of my mom and sisters!)

the neckline is more like this





yeah with straps like i thought lol, otherwise you couldnt have v-neck...honestly ALOT of girls have had their hair down and had straps on their dresses. We all ask for opinions, but in the end you have to do what you like, and what you are comfortable with, you are supposed to look like you not what someone else wants you to look like...SO take opinions but make the final decision. See i hate my hair up and if anyone told me they thought it would be best for me nothing would be able to change my mind. During your hair trials, test out different styles and see which you like...and honestly dont worry about disappointing your mom and sister, they should be supportive and want to see you happy and doing what you love not gvetting mad bc you dont do what they tell you to do
snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22


Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22

so do yourhair down if thats what you want. Do you mean you have a sweatheart neckline, i have never seen a strapless v-neck regardless a strapless dress goes with hair down...PLUS you're wearing a mantilla, honestly i cant picture a mantilla veil with an updo, it goes better with hair down

i have a bunch of hair pics in my album, mostly down and some half up



no, the dress is originally strapless but they are changing it to a v-neck for me because I don't like the way strapless looks on me. my sister is saying somehow I should show off my neckline b/c it's one of my better features (i.e., disproportionately small compared to the rest of me!)



so it will have straps then? well regardless it should go and honestly its your wedding not your sisters, do what style you like not what she likes, and again take into consideration your mantilla veil otherwise if you do an updo or anything then maybe get a different veil



I know what you're saying but i've been so clueless about the wedding stuff that I want other people's opinions... I think she's right that fully down wouldn't look as good. maybe something more like the other pic. I'll either do no veil or a mantilla - it's the only kind I like, and if it's too much with the dress then I'll just skip it and wear stuff in my hair (MUCH to the major disappointment of my mom and sisters!)

the neckline is more like this





yeah with straps like i thought lol, otherwise you couldnt have v-neck...honestly ALOT of girls have had their hair down and had straps on their dresses. We all ask for opinions, but in the end you have to do what you like, and what you are comfortable with, you are supposed to look like you not what someone else wants you to look like...SO take opinions but make the final decision. See i hate my hair up and if anyone told me they thought it would be best for me nothing would be able to change my mind. During your hair trials, test out different styles and see which you like...and honestly dont worry about disappointing your mom and sister, they should be supportive and want to see you happy and doing what you love not gvetting mad bc you dont do what they tell you to do



I've already disappointed everyone by not doing the church wedding! so they are used to me and my non-traditional ways. I was thinking originally half up half down and curly but I do like that other picture that was posted - I feel like something like that might be a good look with my dress. I hate my hair up too - I look so stiff and I hate my profile!
thanks!
Espo22 Posted:

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I've already disappointed everyone by not doing the church wedding! so they are used to me and my non-traditional ways. I was thinking originally half up half down and curly but I do like that other picture that was posted - I feel like something like that might be a good look with my dress. I hate my hair up too - I look so stiff and I hate my profile!
thanks!


If you hate your hair up then definitely DONT do it, honestly i couldnt even imagine anyone tellingme how i HAVE to wear my hair...they should want you to feel comfortable. Its YOUR wedding so of course its gonna be done how you want things and ppl just have to live with that
snwb08 Posted:

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no i definitely won't wear it all up - I think my sis was having regrets b/c she wore hers half up for hers and didn't like it in pics... but it was too severe... But besides hating it up I'm going for a more romantic/informal look instead of classic/formal/elegant, if that makes ANY sense.

it's in two weeks... I'll try to post pics but FH is the one with the camera so that's why I have no pics up!
Espo22 Posted:

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no i definitely won't wear it all up - I think my sis was having regrets b/c she wore hers half up for hers and didn't like it in pics... but it was too severe... But besides hating it up I'm going for a more romantic/informal look instead of classic/formal/elegant, if that makes ANY sense.

it's in two weeks... I'll try to post pics but FH is the one with the camera so that's why I have no pics up!



it makes sense, so stick to your style and dont lose sense of who you are.

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