Need Opinions.. Is it bad luck

If I show my FH a picture of my dress (the picture of it on the model not me)...

I am second quessing myself and now dont think I like it as much .....everyone keeps telling me they love it but I want to hear it from him.

If you want, you can show him a few dresses with yours included and see what he says about them. This way he won't know exactly which one it is. Also, by next week, he probably won't even remember what any of them look like.

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Posted by NayNay3021

If you want, you can show him a few dresses with yours included and see what he says about them.

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what if he says he doesn't like the one you love? consider how that would make you feel...

i showed FH jus bc i was dying to.. LOL I dont belive in any of thst superstition crapola... He loved it!

I dont think so! I've been showing FH pics of dresses I liek then whole way through. He has even seen a pic of me in one dress.

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Posted by Deeglasser

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Posted by NayNay3021

If you want, you can show him a few dresses with yours included and see what he says about them.

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what if he says he doesn't like the one you love? consider how that would make you feel...

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You are right.. but at the same time I dont know if i love it anymore I guess thats why I suddenly want his opinion.. I looooved it when I ordered it and now everytime I look at pics I have doubts.

Why must I be so indecisive!!!

FH has seen my dress but he doesn't know that that is THE dress. I second guessed myself and asked him to go through the DB catalog and check off the ones that he likes. he did AND he ended up not liking the one that i got LOL!!! I know that he will love whatever I am wearing on our day it's just a matter of your personal preference and the way you feel!

if it will make you feel better ask him.....mine helped pick my dress hahahaha

we are VERY untraditional

i dont believe in that stuff either besides, nobody has to know anyway!

the week i bought my dress i went nuts since i was deciding between 2 dresses. I KNEW if i would show it to him that it would help me greatly. I always go back and forth and DH always helps when i do this bc he will pick something right away. Plus him loving one dress over another one will help. So at one point i did ask him to look at the dresses to help me, i wanted him to but at the same time didnt want him to. BUT he said NO and really didn't want to see my dress, he was set on this. Even if i brought up one thing about my dress he would yell at me to stop talking about it lol.

IF you think it would help then go for it, if he is ok with it. In the end i do have to say that i was glad he didnt see it. I liked the whole surprise element

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Posted by Espo22

the week i bought my dress i went nuts since i was deciding between 2 dresses. I KNEW if i would show it to him that it would help me greatly. I always go back and forth and DH always helps when i do this bc he will pick something right away. Plus him loving one dress over another one will help. So at one point i did ask him to look at the dresses to help me, i wanted him to but at the same time didnt want him to. BUT he said NO and really didn't want to see my dress, he was set on this. Even if i brought up one thing about my dress he would yell at me to stop talking about it lol.

IF you think it would help then go for it, if he is ok with it. In the end i do have to say that i was glad he didnt see it. I liked the whole surprise element

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He kept saying No everytime I asked him to look and then finally last night he was like 'ok this is clearly bothering you, show me the dress'... but I didn't.. I said i had to consult with my LIW girls to see if that was a good idea

I love your dress : ). It is so pretty. I am also so undecided between 2 dresses and I am driving myself nuts and feel like I cannot think about anything else all day everyday than wedding dresses . I want to order already, but I am so afraid to make a mistake....

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Posted by NikkiR515

I don't believe in the whole 'bad luck' notion.. I personally don't want FH to see my dress because I want to surprise him but if you really want to show him the dress, then I say go for it!

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ita!! good luck

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Posted by gporka23

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Posted by Espo22

the week i bought my dress i went nuts since i was deciding between 2 dresses. I KNEW if i would show it to him that it would help me greatly. I always go back and forth and DH always helps when i do this bc he will pick something right away. Plus him loving one dress over another one will help. So at one point i did ask him to look at the dresses to help me, i wanted him to but at the same time didnt want him to. BUT he said NO and really didn't want to see my dress, he was set on this. Even if i brought up one thing about my dress he would yell at me to stop talking about it lol.

IF you think it would help then go for it, if he is ok with it. In the end i do have to say that i was glad he didnt see it. I liked the whole surprise element

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He kept saying No everytime I asked him to look and then finally last night he was like 'ok this is clearly bothering you, show me the dress'... but I didn't.. I said i had to consult with my LIW girls to see if that was a good idea

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its up to you, i didnt NOT show him bc of superstition, i didnt it for the element of surprise. DH on the other hand did it for other reasons. Go with your gut feeling. ANd also, i went through the same thing going crazy about the dress. I went back a week later to try both on again, dont just look at the pics it doesnt help. Once i went back the 2nd time i knew right then and there which one i wanted and its funny bc i didnt even try on the 2nd dress i said there was no need, and this was after going crazy and really couldnt make up my mind. Once i saw them on me again i was able to choose. The 2nd time i was also able to focus more on how the dress looked on me too which helped with my decision.

Thanks girls .. you all rock

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by gporka23

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Posted by Espo22

the week i bought my dress i went nuts since i was deciding between 2 dresses. I KNEW if i would show it to him that it would help me greatly. I always go back and forth and DH always helps when i do this bc he will pick something right away. Plus him loving one dress over another one will help. So at one point i did ask him to look at the dresses to help me, i wanted him to but at the same time didnt want him to. BUT he said NO and really didn't want to see my dress, he was set on this. Even if i brought up one thing about my dress he would yell at me to stop talking about it lol.

IF you think it would help then go for it, if he is ok with it. In the end i do have to say that i was glad he didnt see it. I liked the whole surprise element

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He kept saying No everytime I asked him to look and then finally last night he was like 'ok this is clearly bothering you, show me the dress'... but I didn't.. I said i had to consult with my LIW girls to see if that was a good idea

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its up to you, i didnt NOT show him bc of superstition, i didnt it for the element of surprise. DH on the other hand did it for other reasons. Go with your gut feeling. ANd also, i went through the same thing going crazy about the dress. I went back a week later to try both on again, dont just look at the pics it doesnt help. Once i went back the 2nd time i knew right then and there which one i wanted and its funny bc i didnt even try on the 2nd dress i said there was no need, and this was after going crazy and really couldnt make up my mind. Once i saw them on me again i was able to choose. The 2nd time i was also able to focus more on how the dress looked on me too which helped with my decision.

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I think I am going to go and try it on again.. just me and my mom .. thanks again!