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need some advice..

ssbride05 Posted:

need some advice..

Love_my_Freddybear Posted:

Re: need some advice..

Sit her with her. Why not? You don't want her to be comfortable. And the point is for our guest to have a wonderful time...so why not?
If it really is not a big deal and the only thing that is bothering you is the pushiness on her part for asking 3 times, then who really cares. I'd put them together!!!

JMO of course

Good luck!!!
Love_my_Freddybear Posted:

Re: need some advice..

Some people would not dare to tell the bride and groom where they want to be seated, while others see it as no big deal. Everyone is different. Don't hold it against her.
Again, JMO!!!!
ssbride05 Posted:

Re: need some advice..


Posted by Love_my_Freddybear

Sit her with her. Why not? You don't want her to be comfortable. And the point is for our guest to have a wonderful time...so why not?
If it really is not a big deal and the only thing that is bothering you is the pushiness on her part for asking 3 times, then who really cares. I'd put them together!!!

JMO of course

Good luck!!!



I agree.. and I was going to put them together.. I was just upset that she keeps going out of her way to make sure she gets seated with her... of course the guests being comfortable is a priority...
ssbride05 Posted:

Re: need some advice..


Posted by Love_my_Freddybear

Some people would not dare to tell the bride and groom where they want to be seated, while others see it as no big deal. Everyone is different. Don't hold it against her.
Again, JMO!!!!



no, and I don't plan on holding it against her... she called me and asked just about that, not even about me or how I was doing.. that is what hurt my feelings i guess..
Love_my_Freddybear Posted:

Re: need some advice..

I am VERY sensitive. Extremely sensitive and I am ready to write someone off with the quickness. But being taht I knwo how I am (ultra sensitive) I never react right away. Cause if I do, I know I'll regret it. So I wait to cool off and then I react. I am also the type to forget about things 10 minutes after they happen. I can't hold a grudge or stay mad at someone even if i tried.

Some people are cut and dry, straight forward and upfront. They don't mean anything wrong by it. And there are people the exact opposite.

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