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Need some advice

soon2bmrsdunn Posted:

Need some advice

At the end of December my coworker told my boss that she wanted to begin looking for another job in 2006. My boss came to me right after and asked if I wanted him to hire someone else or if I wanted to do the work myself and get a 'huge raise' (his words). I opted for the huge raise. He finally let her go last month. Her last day was over 4 weeks ago. I still have not received a raise nor has he even discussed it with me. He is paying her until the end of this month. Her last check will be May 3rd. What I need advice on is wether I should wait until next week to say something. I mean I am really pissed because it was his decision to pay her. I have been handling the work just fine without her. I am very busy for most of the day, but none of the work gets neglected. Also I get really nervous when I have to talk about these kinds of things. How should I begin the conversation? What should I say? Any advice is greatly appreciated. TIA


Blu-ize Posted:

Re: Need some advice

You need to ask for it. You were told you were going to get it and it's yours.

I understand that you feel funny about it and talking about money is really difficult, but there have been many studies about the reason women get paid less than men in general and one of the reasons is their failure to ask! Just using that as an example.

You deserve it...go get it!

Get in front of your boss and ask when you can expect your salary increase. Really no need to beat around the bush.
m&m Posted:

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Make sure you have a figure in your head - it seems that your initial conversation was a bit vague about the 'huge raise'. Do some research on salary.com or another salary web site so you can find out what fair compensation would be. Then go in there and show him what you found, remind him of the conversation, and ask him when you should expect to see the increase.

Blu-ize is right, if you don't ask, he'll probably never give it to you. Good luck!
JanuaryBride06 Posted:

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Posted by Blu-ize

You need to ask for it. You were told you were going to get it and it's yours.

I understand that you feel funny about it and talking about money is really difficult, but there have been many studies about the reason women get paid less than men in general and one of the reasons is their failure to ask! Just using that as an example.

You deserve it...go get it!

Get in front of your boss and ask when you can expect your salary increase. Really no need to beat around the bush.



I agree 100%

You should ask for what you deserve.
Katherine121 Posted:

Re: Need some advice

You can definitely ask. You don't need to be nervous because you are reminding him of a promise, not just asking for a raise.

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