need some advice

so my cousin's wife just had another baby. both my cousin and his wife are bridesmaid and groomsman in my BP, and their other daughter is the FG.

do i add the new baby into the BP also? she'll only be about 8 months old when the wedding comes around so she won't be able to walk. they would have to walk her down the aisle - which im totally fine with.

i'm not even sure they'll bring her to the wedding though since they are both in the BP, etc. maybe just leave the new baby with her mom or her brother (who are also both invited to my wedding).

what would you do?

I have a similiar situation...FH and I put all of his nieces in the bridal party and now FSIL is due the end of April. I said we should definitely put him (first boy in the family!!) in the bridal party, even though he'll only be 6 mos. old at the time of the wedding, but I got some odd looks from everyone. Once the little man is born, I'll probably leave it up to his parents to decide.

Adelina just posted the cutest little tux this morning and now I totally want to buy one for my future nephew!

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Posted by futuremrso

I would ask them what they want to do. If you dont mind either way, maybe you can leave it up to them with no pressure.

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This!

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Posted by futuremrso

I would ask them what they want to do. If you dont mind either way, maybe you can leave it up to them with no pressure.

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ITA

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Posted by futuremrso

I would ask them what they want to do. If you dont mind either way, maybe you can leave it up to them with no pressure.

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ITA


ETA:
BUT... This is why I would not like babies at the Ceremony/Reception.. I dont want to be saying my vows or my first dance or toast and a baby crying in the background of the video!!
Oh boy.. I dont even wanna think that..!!!

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Posted by futuremrso

I would ask them what they want to do. If you dont mind either way, maybe you can leave it up to them with no pressure.

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This

We are in the same boat (we have a new nephew that will be 3 months at the wedding), and we put it in FSIL's lap....she really does not want to bring the baby!

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Posted by JuneBride14

i personally think that 8 months is too young... my nephew is going to be 9 months and i didn't add him nor do i think my sister would want me to bc it would be a burden

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this is what im thinking too, but i don't want to tell them she can't be a part of it if they want her to be.

i guess i'll just tell them to do whatever they are comfortable with and we'll throw her in a white dress day of JIC

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Posted by futuremrso

I would ask them what they want to do. If you dont mind either way, maybe you can leave it up to them with no pressure.

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I agree