Need some BP advice

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i understand what you are saying. for my friends bachelorette party she wanted to go to hunkamania, i didn't want to, however since this is what she wanted to do i went along with it even if i was unhappy being there.

a couple of months later another friend went to hunkamania for her bachelorette party, and after not having a good time in the past i just met up with them after.

so i think you should tell whom ever is dealing with these girls to tell them they could meet up with you after the show.

It's your party, and you should do what you want to do!
I say have them meet you for dinner or drinks after

First of all.....

What GIRL DOESN'T WANT STRIPPER PELVIC THRUSTING THEIR JUNK IN FRONT OF YOU???

They need to suckk it up...its lame that they can't deal with it!

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Posted by christine2010

i understand what you are saying. for my friends bachelorette party she wanted to go to hunkamania, i didn't want to, however since this is what she wanted to do i went along with it even if i was unhappy being there.

a couple of months later another friend went to hunkamania for her bachelorette party, and after not having a good time in the past i just met up with them after.

so i think you should tell whom ever is dealing with these girls to tell them they could meet up with you after the show.

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I totally agree w/christine2010!!! its ok in my book for you too feel the way you do. it is YOUR bachi party and if your friends have an issue they should do the adult thing and meet up w/you later... oh and here is a bit of advice someone gave me that i am currently working on...'Don't let anyone make you feel bad for choosing what will make you happy!'

If it's just 2 girls, they should be able to just suck it up go...they don't need to do anything they feel uncomfortable doing. Maybe someone can tell the stripper to specifically leave those girls alone?

If it was alot of girls not wanting to do the stripper thing I would say to maybe rethink your plans...since it's only 2...it's your bachelorette party and you'll have strippers if you want to!

Thanks girls, I wanted to make sure I wasn't being a super selfish bridezilla for wanting this for my bachelorette party.

I think I was just really taken back by these two individuals, it really hurt my feelings that they would be like that!

I don't know their situations, but I think if they are in a serious relationship or married then they have a valid excuse for not wanting to go there. As a wife or girlfriend, I would not want to go to something like this just like I wouldn't want naked girls rubbing up all over my husband/FH.

I think they should just skip over this part and join you for the rest of the night. I think you should obvi still go because that is what you want. Don't cancel because of them.

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Posted by MarjorieFrank

I don't know their situations, but I think if they are in a serious relationship or married then they have a valid excuse for not wanting to go there. As a wife or girlfriend, I would not want to go to something like this just like I wouldn't want naked girls rubbing up all over my husband/FH.

I think they should just skip over this part and join you for the rest of the night. I think you should obvi still go because that is what you want. Don't cancel because of them.

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one girl will be married by then and another is single

but my feeling is, the stripper pays attention to the bride to be, so they really shouldn't worry about some guy grinding up on them.

I agree with they should suckit up, it's not a big deal. Once someone makes your party about them it is no longer YOUR party. Do what you want it is not bridezilla-ish at ALL!

I agree if they care uncomfortable they should meet up with you later. Chances are you will have all had so many laughs they will be sad they missed out.

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Posted by mrsdraskin2009

First of all.....

What GIRL DOESN'T WANT STRIPPER PELVIC THRUSTING THEIR JUNK IN FRONT OF YOU???

They need to suckk it up...its lame that they can't deal with it!

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*raises hand* I actually really hate male strippers haha

Though I will say if I was in that situation I would s*ck it up and go or meet up with you afterwards...not b!tch about it.

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Posted by mrsdraskin2009

First of all.....

What GIRL DOESN'T WANT STRIPPER PELVIC THRUSTING THEIR JUNK IN FRONT OF YOU???

They need to suckk it up...its lame that they can't deal with it!

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um i dont thats just gross. If someone I knew was having that at their party I would just meet them after but then again I dont know anyone who wanted that for a BP to begin with.

I don't think you should change your plans at all. If people have such an issue with it then they can meet you for whatever it is that you're doing before or after the stripper bonanza, whether it's dinner or going to a club, etc. But I wouldn't change my plans at all to accomodate them; I'd just let them know what the pre-party/after-party is and when to get there.

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Posted by mrsdraskin2009

First of all.....

What GIRL DOESN'T WANT STRIPPER PELVIC THRUSTING THEIR JUNK IN FRONT OF YOU???

They need to suckk it up...its lame that they can't deal with it!

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It is not my thing BUT if i was in someones BP and thats what they wanted to do I would not say a word and I would go with a smile on! It is their time to shine lol

First I would find out if these two girls will come if there are strippers? Then I say that you should do what you want taking their answers into consideration. If they say theres no way they will show up would be ok having the BP with out them there. sorry they are sucking the fun out of this for you!