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Need Suggestions...what to do with the men during the shower?

roan126 Posted:

Need Suggestions...what to do with the men during the shower?

My shower is on Sunday in Roslyn. I have some people who are driving in from out of town, so the men will need something to do for the 4 hours while the women are at the shower. Now the obvious thing would be for them to go and hang out at my parents house for the duration, but no one seems to want to since my parents are on the south shore and its too far for them to drive. I guess they can go out to lunch, but that wont take up 4 hours. What else can they do in that area to keep them occupied until the shower is over?

Why this is even my problem I dont know, I just dont want them showing up halfway through the shower.
Julybride08 Posted:

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What about go to a local bar for some drinks after and watch a game? Or a movie or bowling?

Mizzdimple Posted:

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movies....or have someone open their home for all of the men to hang out...thats what they all do.....order pizza or whatever...if its just a couple of guys they can hang out at the bar of the restaurant if thats ok with u

Love08 Posted:

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My FH and all the other guys got together and went for lunch then went to a local bar!!

Annoulak Posted:

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In my family it's tradition that the groom-to-be or FOB or FOG take the men to a local restaurant and treat them to lunch.

Jenn04 Posted:

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Golf?

Espo22 Posted:

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Well alot of fh's friends had to come from LI to drive their gf's and 1 from jersey. SO all the guys went to this bar that wasn't too far from the shower, they ate there bc the food is awesome lol and watched sports. They all had a great time

madseason Posted:

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My guys are going to the range at calverton and then are coming to grub a meal at the end - piggies - bc they are going to haul my loot back to my parents house (ooo love sayin that!)

But a bar or a dave and busters or some fun guys activity is a good way to go - something they like to do with no women
lillprincess54 Posted:

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for my shower the boys went and played some golf

bluekat16 Posted:

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I've told my MOH I want my shower at the end of Aug. or beginning of Sept. so it can be done as a backyard bbq at my FSIL's house... even though my wedding is in December.

The men can then go to FH's house and they can have their own BBQ and leave us ladies to our ooohhhh's and ahhhhh's
snwb08 Posted:

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at all our showers most of the men that drive the women have lunch in a separate room in the place; this is what my dad is doing.

fh won't be there though; he's coming at the very end.
jessnstu08 Posted:

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Rosyln is a pretty limited town in terms of entertainment , there are a few bars they can go to , like the Chalet ( kinda dive-y, but fun) or Poco Loco's - which is good mexican food ect . If they would prefer a dave and busters type , there is one by the roosevelt field mall , only 10 min away

my shower is in roslyn too ( i have a feeling)

Oh and you do have a point, it is SO not your problem to figure where the men go .

roan126 Posted:

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Posted by jessnstu08

Rosyln is a pretty limited town in terms of entertainment , there are a few bars they can go to , like the Chalet ( kinda dive-y, but fun) or Poco Loco's - which is good mexican food ect . If they would prefer a dave and busters type , there is one by the roosevelt field mall , only 10 min away

my shower is in roslyn too ( i have a feeling)

Oh and you do have a point, it is SO not your problem to figure where the men go .




yeah, I know its not my problem...but my mom was basically like, oh, they'll just go for a walk when they are done eating. A 2 hour walk???? My concern is that they'll just end up showing up at the shower 2 hours early.
jessnstu08 Posted:

Re: Need Suggestions...what to do with the men during the shower?


Posted by roan126


Posted by jessnstu08

Rosyln is a pretty limited town in terms of entertainment , there are a few bars they can go to , like the Chalet ( kinda dive-y, but fun) or Poco Loco's - which is good mexican food ect . If they would prefer a dave and busters type , there is one by the roosevelt field mall , only 10 min away

my shower is in roslyn too ( i have a feeling)

Oh and you do have a point, it is SO not your problem to figure where the men go .




yeah, I know its not my problem...but my mom was basically like, oh, they'll just go for a walk when they are done eating. A 2 hour walk???? My concern is that they'll just end up showing up at the shower 2 hours early.



where is your shower?
Mici n KC Posted:

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A bar

MayWeddingGrl Posted:

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How about having the guys head over to Dave and Busters.

snowcutie82 Posted:

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besides what was mentioned already...

maybe bowling?
mariana881 Posted:

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Posted by snwb08

at all our showers most of the men that drive the women have lunch in a separate room in the place; this is what my dad is doing.

fh won't be there though; he's coming at the very end.



we are doing the same thing!
roan126 Posted:

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Posted by jessnstu08


Posted by roan126


Posted by jessnstu08

Rosyln is a pretty limited town in terms of entertainment , there are a few bars they can go to , like the Chalet ( kinda dive-y, but fun) or Poco Loco's - which is good mexican food ect . If they would prefer a dave and busters type , there is one by the roosevelt field mall , only 10 min away

my shower is in roslyn too ( i have a feeling)

Oh and you do have a point, it is SO not your problem to figure where the men go .




yeah, I know its not my problem...but my mom was basically like, oh, they'll just go for a walk when they are done eating. A 2 hour walk???? My concern is that they'll just end up showing up at the shower 2 hours early.



where is your shower?



Its at George Washington Manor
jeanyus27 Posted:

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Posted by roan126


Posted by jessnstu08


Posted by roan126


Posted by jessnstu08

Rosyln is a pretty limited town in terms of entertainment , there are a few bars they can go to , like the Chalet ( kinda dive-y, but fun) or Poco Loco's - which is good mexican food ect . If they would prefer a dave and busters type , there is one by the roosevelt field mall , only 10 min away

my shower is in roslyn too ( i have a feeling)

Oh and you do have a point, it is SO not your problem to figure where the men go .




yeah, I know its not my problem...but my mom was basically like, oh, they'll just go for a walk when they are done eating. A 2 hour walk???? My concern is that they'll just end up showing up at the shower 2 hours early.



where is your shower?



Its at George Washington Manor



my shower is at the George Washington Manor too! Mine is April 5th. I was thinking the same thing. I'll only have a few guys there and i was thinking of sending them to Poco Loco's. I think thats the name of it, its right down the block. Its a cute little mexican place. Its also a bar too if they just want a few drinks. HTH!

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