My FH and I have decided there will be no children attending the eparty and the wedding. Any kid under 18 cannot come because there are over 15 little kids and we can't invite one and not the other. And honestly I do not want children there. We sent out eparty invites for a fancy brunch and addressed the envelopes to Mr. & Mrs. Only not family. Well some people called to RSVP for their family and were insulted because of the no kids. YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME! As far as I am concerned this is our party and I do not think you have the right to question our decisions. Now I'm the bad guy I cannot believe it. I am so annoyed I want to start telling people off. The only children will be the ring bearer and flower girl. These people need to get over it they are not paying for this and it is not there day.
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Nicole0408
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So I totally understand your frustrations. I always said no kids at my wedding, I just don't believe they are a place for kids. That being said my soon to be step daughter will most def be in the wedding and attending along with the other children in our wedding party ( fiances nieces and nephews as I don't have any) but I'm sure I will hear crap from people who have kids which is plenty of my family.
You just need to remember that no matter what, someone is always going to be upset and its about you and your fiancé and what the two of you want. Good luck and keep us updated.
Lavieboheme84
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Absolutely--all these choices are your decision. I can't believe people are offended that their kids aren't invited...I mean really? It's not so unheard of to have a eparty/wedding/etc with only 18+. You're in the right!
corrine1129
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Thanks ladies I am human so I feel bad. However I am not changing my decision. I do not want someone to not come bc I didn't invite kids. Ugh that would be the worst!
Jott1015
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We are not having children either, only the ring bearer who is my (will be 3 yr old) godson. You should not feel bad at all its YOUR day!!