Need to vent...
did any of your FIs/DHs get invited to someone elses bach party in vegas, and you didnt' want them to spend the money??
DH is in a wedding in september, and the best man ( single party guy) wants to have the bach party in vegas. now, i have no prob with what might go on in vegas- DH is a big boy, and i trust him... BUT, i do have a problem with him spending hte money, when we're trying to save to add on to our house or get a bigger one. i also don't want to tell him he shouldn't go, because this is for one of his closest friends and hes in the wedding. i just don't think the best man is considering everybody else with this. one of the other GMs is still in grad school, and has loans from undergrad to pay- he can't afford this, and its not fair to exclude him when hes in the wedding .
i also have to say that this is one group of friends, who will all be goig to each other bach parties in the next few years... so i just feel like what you do for one, you have to do for the others- why should one guy get a more extravagent bach party? DHs was just a night in AC, and they all had a blast!
i guess i just needed to vent... thanks for listening!![]()
DH is in a wedding in september, and the best man ( single party guy) wants to have the bach party in vegas. now, i have no prob with what might go on in vegas- DH is a big boy, and i trust him... BUT, i do have a problem with him spending hte money, when we're trying to save to add on to our house or get a bigger one. i also don't want to tell him he shouldn't go, because this is for one of his closest friends and hes in the wedding. i just don't think the best man is considering everybody else with this. one of the other GMs is still in grad school, and has loans from undergrad to pay- he can't afford this, and its not fair to exclude him when hes in the wedding .
i also have to say that this is one group of friends, who will all be goig to each other bach parties in the next few years... so i just feel like what you do for one, you have to do for the others- why should one guy get a more extravagent bach party? DHs was just a night in AC, and they all had a blast!
i guess i just needed to vent... thanks for listening!
