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NEED TO VENT!!!

lilangel Posted:

NEED TO VENT!!!

Ok I am sorry! But I just have to do it! I am trying to have my mother involved in my wedding planning and with everything that I am trying to do I feel like all I am getting from her is negative feedback.

Whether it is about price of a hotel room, place of the hall, amount per plate, Honeymoon, colors types of dresses. Everything! Not to mention when I was just looking into hotel rooms for guests I found a cute place near the swan club where I am having my wedding. I tell her about it and she wants a different place because “what about her dogs”…. Her dogs! My mother is bringing her three small poopy dogs for the weekend of my wedding! Because she doesn’t want them to be alone all weekend!

Not just that but she also said we should all stay at my sister’s apartment before the wedding. Now normally that would sound like a great idea but my sister has a studio apartment where I will be with my sister, my mother, my mother’s lover, and three poopy dogs! AGGGHHHHHH


Thank you
EverlovingEv Posted:

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TnOiOnL Posted:

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everyone gets sh!t from family.. it s ucks!!!! sometimes you gotta just yes them to death...
SeptBride70 Posted:

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Wow, there's no drama like family drama!!!

I'm so sorry- she sounds like she is not considering you or your day AT ALL... That really stinks Do you think you could try talking to her about it and saying how much you love for her to be involved but that if she could be a little bit more accepting and understanding of your ideas that would be great. I would also mention the fact that if she could try to be positive about things then that would be a big help!

It's worth a shot- otherwise, you are just going to be all stressed during your planning. I hope it gets better! That crap about the dogs coming is pretty crazy!!

Yecala27 Posted:

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I'm sorry to hear that i was in the same situation but i decided to do things myself. I hope things get better and she can change so you can have her support.
MnM52607 Posted:

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lilangel Posted:

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Thank you guys soooooo much I really mean it.

I spoke with the FH and he told me I should just focus on our day and nothing else. He said he is not planning on marrying anyone else so if we want to splurge a bit for our day he is fine with it.... just so long as I dont put him in the poor house lol. He always knows how to make me smile.
bettybcafe Posted:

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Posted by MrsBartonToBe

everyone gets sh!t from family.. it s ucks!!!! sometimes you gotta just yes them to death...



Exactly! Try not to stress it too much, my mom is the SAME way! She complains about everything and it truly drives me up the wall sometimes. Just ignore her..and enjoy ur planning
dianadrw Posted:

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My mom is the same way. She drives me up the wall!!! Whenever I tell my mom something about the wedding she either makes a face or says, 'Why are you doing that???' It drives me crazy! So now I don't really tell her anything unless she asks. And even then, I'm very vague which drives HER crazy!!!
mskittynj Posted:

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awwwwwwwww you poor thing!!!!!!
XOXOXO
Kitty
RudysMom Posted:

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My mom is the same way - she manages to s uck the fun out of everything!

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