need to vent :(

Okay, so its not really wedding related, but kinda. FH and I moved down to FL last July, He is from Western NY and im from LI. He couldnt handle the city nor could I handle the cows. We compromised and moved down to FL. Its been slow going we dont know many ppl and its tough for us. I lost my grandma very unexpectedly right before xmas. She was like my mom and im having a real hard time dealing with it....think super denial...anyway, now with the wedding planning, i really want to be home but i figured that I could handle it down here.

Well...Just got a call from FH that they are moving him to nights and giving him mon-wens off, we used to have thurs fri off together, so now we wont see eachother EVER. I hate my job at the moment and I just want to go home to LI

I dont know what to do. Sorry for the long vent but im home by myself and im so upset :(

Im so sorry you are going through this! I hope everything gets better for you ...im very sorry to hear about your grandma!

aww things will get better i'm sorry about your grandma, but no matter where you are your grandma is looking over you and seeing you plan your gorgeous wedding!! .. and im sorry about FH, maybe its only temporary? I hope so! but goodluck with everything, and I hope everything works out!

im so sorry!! maybe there are meet & greets around your area you could go to so you can meet new people?? sounds cheesy i know, but its better than sitting home missing FH every nite!!!!

good luck!

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Posted by TM2008



im so sorry!! maybe there are meet & greets around your area you could go to so you can meet new people?? sounds cheesy i know, but its better than sitting home missing FH every nite!!!!

good luck!

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Hes down here with me we just dont know anyone else, and its so hard being away from my mom doing all of this since im her only child, i really want to be home

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Posted by Jamnike

He couldnt handle the city nor could I handle the cows.

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But on a more serious note. I can only imagine how hard that is especially now not being able to see your FH. I would be getting kinda homesick also. Have you talked to your FH about how you feel? If so, what does he say about it?

Aw Jen! Come back to LI and hang out w/me!!!

P.S. Sorry I missed you when you were here, we were upstate all weekend for Frank's bday

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Posted by NF622

Aw Jen! Come back to LI and hang out w/me!!!

P.S. Sorry I missed you when you were here, we were upstate all weekend for Frank's bday

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I really want to I think im just totally pmsing n am overly emotional right now lol I know we cant move but im so stuck...grrr no more crying i just did my makeup!

I'm soo sorry you're going through this and that you feel alone. We're you're connection back to NY Would it be possible for you to switch your days so they two of you have off together?

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Posted by cherish83

I'm soo sorry you're going through this and that you feel alone. We're you're connection back to NY Would it be possible for you to switch your days so they two of you have off together?

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lol i work for disney....no way....if i was a guest, theyd bend over backwards for me....were just onna have to take it one day at a time

aww im sorry to hear that, FHs sched and mine conflict sometimes...sometimes i see him for about an hr a week and its hard....but itll work itself out