need to vent
I created another username bc I don't want anyone I know seeing this from me.
This is kind of long. My fiance dated this girl about 4-5 years back - broke up with her after 2 to 3 years of on and off again dating. It wasn't a very clean break- they'd still talk and see each other as friends when they were in the same town but nothing intimate would happen (they were trying to preserve their friendship of 10 years- or at least he was). When the 2 of us met (fiance and i), they weren't really talking anymore. Her mom and my fiance's mom were good friends- that's how they met. They still maintained some sort of friendship after the breakup although it was really strained bc her mom blamed his mom for interfering in the relationship and telling FI to break up w/ her. Anyway, his ex went a little crazy, calling up in the middle of the night crying or sending emails reminiscing about their time together or harrassing FI's brother and cousin and friends - telling them to tell FI to break up with me. He began to ignore her calls after trying to talk to her tellingl her to stop. Nothing worked. Then she stopped calling. Until we got engaged. She found out about it from her mom who found out from FI's mom- his mom felt that she should know. Then, ex calls up FI crying hysterically, calls up his brother, gets ****ed off, calls FI at work every 1/2 hour. And this is the day after getting engaged- it ruined my mood completely for that whole week. Prior to this when FI's mom tells psycho's mom, she then flips out, curses, slams on the dashboard of the car, saying that FI is a bad man and that he needs to start acting like an adult and take responsibility and how FI's mom was the reason her daughter is miserable. FI's mom kicked her out of the car - so when I heard this I thought it was the end of their friendship that was so strained to begin with. But NOW FI's parents and her parents with another couple are going on vacation together!!!! I don't know what their problem is! WHY would you want to be friends w/ a lunatic woman like ex's mom??? AND i feel them maintaining a friendship w/ her parents is disrespectful to me and to my FI. Am I wrong to feel this way??? I am sorry this is so long and I'm sure it's jumbled but I hope you get the drift of the situation.
This is kind of long. My fiance dated this girl about 4-5 years back - broke up with her after 2 to 3 years of on and off again dating. It wasn't a very clean break- they'd still talk and see each other as friends when they were in the same town but nothing intimate would happen (they were trying to preserve their friendship of 10 years- or at least he was). When the 2 of us met (fiance and i), they weren't really talking anymore. Her mom and my fiance's mom were good friends- that's how they met. They still maintained some sort of friendship after the breakup although it was really strained bc her mom blamed his mom for interfering in the relationship and telling FI to break up w/ her. Anyway, his ex went a little crazy, calling up in the middle of the night crying or sending emails reminiscing about their time together or harrassing FI's brother and cousin and friends - telling them to tell FI to break up with me. He began to ignore her calls after trying to talk to her tellingl her to stop. Nothing worked. Then she stopped calling. Until we got engaged. She found out about it from her mom who found out from FI's mom- his mom felt that she should know. Then, ex calls up FI crying hysterically, calls up his brother, gets ****ed off, calls FI at work every 1/2 hour. And this is the day after getting engaged- it ruined my mood completely for that whole week. Prior to this when FI's mom tells psycho's mom, she then flips out, curses, slams on the dashboard of the car, saying that FI is a bad man and that he needs to start acting like an adult and take responsibility and how FI's mom was the reason her daughter is miserable. FI's mom kicked her out of the car - so when I heard this I thought it was the end of their friendship that was so strained to begin with. But NOW FI's parents and her parents with another couple are going on vacation together!!!! I don't know what their problem is! WHY would you want to be friends w/ a lunatic woman like ex's mom??? AND i feel them maintaining a friendship w/ her parents is disrespectful to me and to my FI. Am I wrong to feel this way??? I am sorry this is so long and I'm sure it's jumbled but I hope you get the drift of the situation.
