Need to vent about BM! (long)

Ok, so right after FH and I got engaged I asked his cousin to be in our wedding, I figured number 1 she was the one that introduced us and number 2 he doesn't have any sisters, and they WERE really close. She said yes. Great, now it is time for my MOH and BM's to plan my shower, FH's cousin tells my MOH that she is not putting $200.00 in (from what I understand that includes my gift) to have my shower at a resturant! It is not like she is hurting for $$$! It is also not like I went and asked them to buy these expensive dresses or anything (they are getting them from Davids Bridal.) And to top it off she is wearing the dress in a wedding a month before mine, so if you think about it, she is really not paying for anything, and she won't chip in $200, when 1/2 the people I invited were in one way or another related to her! If she didn't want to do this, or want this 'responsibilty' why did she say yes!

Thanks for letting me vent girls.

I agree. She should've never agreed to be in the bridal party. What does your FH say? Can you talk to hime about this? I, like you, am having problems with ONE BM. She is just unbelievable. I actually had my FH call her husband!! (he is the best man) I just felt like fine, give me an attitude, no problem, i will have him take care of it. You know, there is one in every bunch!!

_Jennifer