Go to bed and get a good night sleep tomorrow will be better. Please know that you are not alone. I feel the same way every day.
Snick n Nick
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all the stress will be over soon, and then it will just be you and your FH, saying your vows, looking into each others' eyes.....and you will be married. try not to get bogged down....i'm so sorry all this nonsense is happening to you, but just try to focus on those moments that are coming....you and FH, united! it will be worth it in the end
kimandvin
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AWWWW Try to de stress and enjoy the rest of your planning days.. I am in someone's wedding and she is going through the same things and shes 20 days away.. Take a deep breath! It will wall work out!
mRm2008
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i am so sorry this is happening to you. i wish there was something i could say or do to ease the stress you are feeling right now all i can say is to try and find support in yourself. be strong, even if it means stepping back from the situation, even if its just for a day. that may give you some time to clear things out of your head and help you to feel better. i wish you all the luck in the world and many blessings in your future
shoegal68
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i am very sorry you are going through this
we all have our weeks or days. i have had my share of ups & downs with wedding planning. for example right now i am not talking to my MOH/sister. long story.. spare u the details.
i don't know what you should do with FMIL. Any way of having a heart to heart or FH talking to her???
last week i was going through the same thoughts. i just told myself to take a deep breath & realize this is you & your FH wedding & to hell with everybody else. You have waited a long time for this & as long as you & FH are happy thats what matters.
honestly, not sure if its right but i'm trying to distance myself from negative people. my sister made a quite few digs that were hurtful. I don't need that right now.
not sure if this helped or not.... but do know you are not alone.. last week i literally broke down in tears at work!.
Good luck.. feel free to send me a FM if you feel like chatting.
Hawks Nest
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Everything will fall into place. Just remember it is your day....
heathermatt
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Have a glasss of wine and then go to bed...Take deep breaths and try not to think of anything...HAPPY thoughts...
Wifeynella
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first....
second.... maybe FH could ask FMIL to find an early appt since its very important to him that she be there on time. explain (whether its true or not) that there is a very tight time schedule and if shes late the whole day will have to be pushed back
third.... get a glass of wine, kiss your FH and cuddle up.
everything will fall into place. all that matters is you ad FH... everyone else are scenery!