Need to vent - Will take this down soon b/c of little people with big eyes

AJsMommy122 Posted: Nov 30, 2004 10:23 AM

Need to vent - Will take this down soon b/c of little people with big eyes

DebMaher Posted: Nov 30, 2004 10:24 AM

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Maxine, bottom line is you are first. She will be nothing but a cheap imitation of the real thing. Can you say tofutti?

AJsMommy122 Posted: Nov 30, 2004 10:26 AM

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Posted by DebMaher

Maxine, bottom line is you are first. She will be nothing but a cheap imitation of the real thing. Can you say tofutti?

you always crack me up. I totally understand its just frustrating. I stopped telling her my wedding plans but she has enough time between my wedding and hers to still cop everything. yes she will look stupid and yes most people will notice but it will still drive me crazy!! You put so much time and effort and thought into your wedding to make it your own and its frustrating.

DebMaher Posted: Nov 30, 2004 10:28 AM

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Tofutti
Margarine
Avis
Betamax
Christina Aguilera (sorry Octbride)
Roger Moore
Maxine's 'friend
What do these arll have in common?

hbradio Posted: Nov 30, 2004 10:29 AM

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Remember you are first so let her say and do whatever she wants! Shes the one copying!!!

AJsMommy122 Posted: Nov 30, 2004 10:30 AM

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Posted by DebMaher

Tofutti
Margarine
Avis
Betamax
Christina Aguilera (sorry Octbride)
Roger Moore
Maxine's 'friend
What do these arll have in common?

DebMaher Posted: Nov 30, 2004 10:34 AM

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NOT AS GOOD AS THE ORIGINAL!!!
MOVE ON AND SHAKE YOUR GROOVE THANG!

Bunnymonkey Posted: Nov 30, 2004 11:15 AM

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I would be fuming - that really does suck.

But Deb is right.

I think if you let her get to you, she WINS. You are above it - YOU WIN, you are first, you are going to have a better wedding. Thats all there is to it.

Please don't tell me this *friend* is in your wedding party!!!!

mcc101 Posted: Nov 30, 2004 11:23 AM

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DON'T EVEN LET HER GET TO YOU!!! I AM SURE SHE WILL MAKE HERSELF SHINE IN HER OWN MISERY.

JUST HAVE FUN PLANNING YOUR OWN WEDDING - DON'T LET ANYONE SPOIL IT FOR YOU!

neesiepie Posted: Nov 30, 2004 12:28 PM

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Whoever she is...and she KNOWS who she is.....SHOULD GET A LIFE AND PLAN HER OWN FREAKIN WEDDING AND STOP TRYING TO RE-CREATE A CHEAP IMITATION OF YOURS!!!

Ang&Rich Posted: Nov 30, 2004 12:57 PM

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Totally understand...

For me it's still annoying when your wedding comes first because the fact remains that she's copying! You're right, you work so hard to come up with the idea and further to make the idea into a reality and then someone swoops in and copies. What I hate more is that we are all so excited about our ideas so we share - more to just be able to tell someone what we are doing - and next thing you know you are explaining how to do it because they want to. That kills me. I show someone something I made and next thing they are asking me for tips so they can copy - and not just the idea - the whole freakin thing!

Sorry for the rant - but you have my sympathy.

FLaCaTaCa Posted: Nov 30, 2004 01:12 PM

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Posted by neesiepie

Whoever she is...and she KNOWS who she is.....SHOULD GET A LIFE AND PLAN HER OWN FREAKIN WEDDING AND STOP TRYING TO RE-CREATE A CHEAP IMITATION OF YOURS!!!

NICE!

Dooodles Posted: Nov 30, 2004 07:23 PM

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Well, you are a better woman than I would have been. My immediate comment would have been 'Since I have picked red as the color for my girls dresses, do you plan on having an original thought or are you just going to try and duplicate my entire wedding?'